Rar, Char, Lin & Fin

2 months later

2011-10-01T18:58:00.000-07:00

I guess it's time I let the world know how the Isai clan is holding up. It's been about 2 months since the near drowning and I figured rather than leave my saga out in webville just hanging without any closure---I can give you all a quick update.
Charlotte is doing great! She amazes me every day and makes me laugh out loud all the time. Her love for the water and the pool is not what it once was, but good news is, she has been back in. It's not like it used to be and it's probably for the best. She pretty much camps out in the cacuzzi (jacuzzi) and steers clear of the big pool saving without fail, "I fell in the big pool." I am not pushing too much. I know by next summer things will be much much better and well, truth be told, I'm so ready for summer to end. (For any of you that know me...that is NOT my normal way. I love love love summer and always get the fall blues for about a day---well not this year.)
I'm doing much better, too. I finally accepted that I will never be the same after such an experience. EVER. I'm sure most of the world is thinking...."Uh duh...of course you won't be the same." But I think it was difficult for me to comprehend that I would be changed when the outcome was a positive one. In some weird way, I felt that since Charlotte lived I would be able to go back to how things were the day before the accident and when that didn't happen I kinda panicked. The Lord gave me such a great verse that helped me take major steps forward and letting go of this guilt of how can I ever thank God enough for giving me my precious Charlotte back and giving me more time with her.

Psalm 106:1-2 "Praise the LORD! Give thanks to the LORD, for he is good! His faithful love endures forever. Who can list the glorious miracles of the LORD? Who can ever praise him enough?"

That verse pretty much answered the question! None of us are worthy and none of us will ever be able to thank God enough.

Well, friends...thank you again for reading. Thank you for your support and love. I appreciate you all.

Until next time.
Linda

The day we almost lost Charlotte

2011-08-08T08:29:00.000-07:00

On Friday, August 5th I had to face and experience something that every parent dreads---their child having a near death experience. I've been haunted by that afternoon for a few days now and I feel like the best way to move on is to share the ordeal and then do nothing but send praises and thanksgiving to our precious Father in Heaven!

Here are the ugly details that I hope will help me finally heal.

It was about 4pm and my sister, Joanne and I had just said goodbye to some of my previous coworkers from Cerritos. They had been visiting all day and we had a wonderful time. Charlotte was her typical little entertainer--cracking us up. My sister was basically acting as my live in nanny for the day and taking care of the kids while I was catching up with my buddies about the good old days at Cerritos. After they left we decided that it was still really nice out and we should go swimming. This was Joanne and Charlotte's second time in the pool.

My sister took both kids out while I went upstairs to change. By the time I got down, Joanne was holding a very fussy Griffin and we decided it was time for him to take a short little power nap. So back upstairs I went to change him and put him in his crib. When I got back downstairs Charlotte and Joanne were already in the pool and I just couldn't wait to get on my massive pool lounger and just relax. This is where the first problem started. I ALWAYS take the kids in the pool ME... not someone else. I ALWAYS do the same thing the same way...bathing suit, sun block, floaties and then enjoy the water. Well, this time...that didn't happen. Looking back now, I can remember that Charlotte didn't have her floaties on but it didn't actually register. I can see her in that white bathing suit with pink roses clearly without her floaties but I didn't even think to remind her about the rules. I WAS OUT OF IT. Maybe the reason I didn't notice was because she was using her brother's little boat floatie (which she has used many times before but always with floaties on as well)--anyway, my sister clearly remembers telling Charlotte that once I come outside, she needs to put her floaties on, but soon forgot that when I came down ready to chit chat about all our usual nonsense.
The last memory I have of Charlotte before the near drowning accident, is her standing on our very large reef step trying to wedge out her legs from the obviously too small boat. She was taking off the boat and it still didn't register with me that she had no other form of pool safety equipment on.

Joanne and I were both on similar pool loungers and we were holding each others feet so that we wouldn't drift off from one another. And we were doing what those loungers are designed to do...float and turn from side to side. Then in a moment of pure terror I felt the urge to look behind me because things were eerily quiet. There she was in about 4 feet of water face down sinking closer to the bottom and completely lifeless and blue. I will never EVER be able to escape from that image. I remember a few things after that...I remember screaming NOOOOOOOOOO!!!! and Joanne, unable to see her because of the floatie started screaming uncontrollably. (that's another thing I can't seem to shake from memory---those blood curdling screams that were our way of trying to wake up from this nightmare.) Reflecting back to that very moment and hearing my sister's horrible screams really freaked me out. With every scream I heard I was becoming more and more fearful that it was too late to save her and that my sister knew that and I was just not ready to accept it. The next thing I remember is me grabbing Charlotte (who was as limp as a rag doll) and giving her to my sister while I ran in the house to call 911. Looking back, I feel guilty that I wasn't the one to hold her and try and revive her (it's weird, it's as though I couldn't look at her, like I needed someone else to do the dirty work because I was not strong enough to try and revive her myself.) She was unconscious, non responsive, and blue---As I'm running in the house many things went through my mind and I felt like I was running in a big jar of molasses. I felt like I was running as fast as I could and yet I couldn't reach the house. During this run that seemed to last an eternity I pictured 3 key events in quick fragments. I pictured me telling my sweet Raresh that our Charlotte is dead because of me, I pictured standing before both sets of grandparents and telling them their grand daughter is gone because of me, and then I pictured her funeral and having to tell an entire room of loved ones that it was my carelessness that took away this precious little girl. All those images flooding through my mind as I'm picking my self up from taking a major fall in the house from not drying off and trekking in all this water, all those real images of seeing her face down as I'm dialing 911---screaming and pleading ...."PLEASE LORD don't let this happen!" As I'm waiting for the dispatcher to come on the phone I make my way back outside only to see my sister screaming and trying to revive her. She's yelling things like..."I don't know what to do" and then acting on what she remembered. She pumped her chest once, blew in her mouth twice and put her on her side and water began to come out of her mouth. Then Charlotte threw up a couple times and her eyes began rolling in her head. Then in her discomfort, confusion and disorientation she began screaming and crying and we continued our wailing. I threw the phone to my sister and grab Charlotte in my arms and she vomits again and continues to cry. I sit on the ground because I feel my legs give out and I hold her and ask her to tell me who she is and who I am and she doesn't respond, she doesn't even make eye contact. At this point, I knew she was going to live but I feared she would never be the same.

As I'm holding her bawling waiting for 911 to show---my sister sits next to us holding us and yelling, "It's my fault! It's my fault!" I'm yelling and pleading to Jesus, "Please Lord if you have to take her please not like this! Please, I beg you...not like this!" It's so weird what you remember and what is foggy.

Finally 911 show up and they take her in the house and she's hysterical and they try to check her, and they begin to all ask me questions and I'm ready to barf and I can't remember and I'm still terrified and I just want to hold her and I'm trying to calm down and I remember the paramedic telling me..."Mom...mom...she's screaming...she's crying...these are good signs...this is good...she's okay...the worst is over" But how did he know that? She still had yet to say anything or look at me. They told me she needed to go to ER to check for extensive damage and my sister brought me clothes and I get in the ambulance and we go to ER. By now, I'm trying to calm my sweet Charlotte down. I'm in mom mode. I use every trick that normally works and lo and behold she begins responding. She was captivated by my singing the songs she begs me to sing that I normally do with hesitation (because if any of you know my Charlotte...you do something once and she says AGAIN over and over) But this time...I would have given my life to hear her say, "again". Once on our way, the paramedic Aaron (bless his heart) kept telling me how great we did, how she's doing great, how he can't hear wheezing in the lungs (which is a great sign), how the monitors she was hooked up with were indicating that she was perfect. Charlotte fell asleep for about 10 minutes and he just let me cry.

Our arrival to the ER is what woke her up and she was very upset about the oxygen tube around her nose--which again was another way of God showing me, she's a typical kid. Who wants that on their face? We get inside and she's still very scared and she's now asking for me. Once we are in our room, they let me get in the bed and hold her. I did that for 40 minutes and I could feel her heart beating and her breathing become normal and I was at peace. I felt God's comfort in that moment. As we were waiting for them to take us to Xray and as I was telling the billionth person what happened (what I remembered) Charlotte slowly started behaving like that sweet kid she is. All her questions started up. She was obsessed with why the old lady across from us was at the hospital. This was our conversation:
C-Mama, what happened to that lady?
Me-I don't know, honey.
C-But tell me, what happened to her?
M-Maybe she fell down.
C-Where did she fall?
M-Well, I don't know.
C-But where?
M-At the park.
C-Why did she fall at the park?
M-She tripped,
C-What did she trip on?
M-A rock.
C-Why did she trip on the rock?
M-Because she wasn't careful.
C- Oh okay.

MUSIC to my ears! It was as though the Lord was showing me--she's perfectly okay. During the chest Xray, she was asking the tech a million questions, taking about all the shapes in the room, even saying her famous, "Act natural"--instead of saying "Cheese" when they were ready to take her picture/xray.

Then the Doctor basically reassured me she is absolutely perfect and we were free to go.

Raresh had to rush home from his commitment at the Base and I had to tell him what happened. My sister called him while I was in the ambulance and she was very brief and told him the most important info, i.e.--"she fell in the pool, she's okay, but 911 was called. Come home." I was a mess when it came time to tell him. He was as wonderful as he always is and said exactly what I needed to hear.

The only thing left was to inform our family and friends of what happened. I had to keep talking about it and reliving it to try and make it less real. I did that for 2 days. It wasn't until after I told the grandparents, face to face that I started to feel better. The sermon on Sunday was about trusting God when we are in a state of bewilderment. I was reminded that God's plans are never by accident. That every single thing we experience is all because God allows it and purposes it in our lives. It was exactly what I needed. It was as though it was spoken directly to me.

Since the accident, we have not gone in the pool. It's only been 2 days and today is the day we will go. I have forced myself to look out at that pool and to not be afraid, because God is in control and God allowed this in our life. Whether or not I get it, it had to happen this way. I ask Charlotte about what happened and all she says, "I fell in the pool and I went down, but you took me out." I'm not sure she actually remembers I took her out. I think she has heard me tell the story enough times now. Every time I do tell the story and I start to cry, she asks, "Mommy, why are you crying?" and my response is, "Because I got scared, but now I'm crying because I'm so happy God protected you. He loves us so much."

Charlotte does not appear to be afraid of the water, but I guess I won't really know until we attempt a pool trip.

Well...those are the details of the ordeal. The horrible horrible details. Up until just now, I've been constantly wondering why God chose to spare her life and not some other child who this happened to. I can sit here and make myself crazy, but the answer to that question is simply this...our Creator knows the exact moment we are born and the exact time and place we will die and it just wasn't her time to go.

So here I sit, reflecting on what could have been and just send praises to my Lord and Savior! This was God's way of reminding me how precious life is and that my sweet kids are just borrowed and ultimately belong to Him. Thank you Lord for sparing her, thank you for all the support, thank you for the wake up call. Really...I guess I'm saying thank you for all of it --the good and the bad-- because it's all from you!

Griffin's First Birthday Luau

2011-07-28T14:34:00.000-07:00

A lot has happened since I last blogged...like 2 vacations worth (seriously)--but I've been so busy with my family enjoying the days and the moments that blogging has taken a MAJOR back seat. Maybe one day, I'll get to posting some pictures from our trip to the Northwest and our Big Sur camping trip--but today I'll post some picctures from Griffin's first birthday. I can't believe it's been one whole YEAR since my sweet baby boy arrived. What a treasure God has blessed us with. Some quick stats...he's got 6 teeth that he got when he was 11 months old (5 in one shot). He is almost completely weened (THANK GOD!) and he's sleeping about 8 hours a night. Not bad...not bad at all!

The Isai Family

Sweet little babies

We are so grateful to have Griffin as a part of our family. I can't imagine my life without my little guy. Love you bunches sweet boy! I pray that we will have wisdom to raise you up to be a compasionate, kind, loving, funny, and intelligent man who loves the Lord and chooses to serve Him always.

Our Family photo shoot

2011-05-16T19:59:00.000-07:00

Hello Cyber world...I seriously am not sure why I even bother with this blog anymore. I'm so not consistant. But for those that might still be checking in...I promised I'd share some photos from our family photo shoot a few weeks ago. As always, my best friend did an amazing job. If anyone is interested in her help with a photo shoot or with restoring furniture and stuff...here's her link. She's pretty stinking amazing and afordable, too! http://suiterevival.blogspot.com/.

Here are a few of my favorites. There were soooo many to choose from but I had to at least share a few.
Now I finally have a wall in the house with family photos!
Enjoy!

Upcoming photo shoot pictures

2011-04-05T19:05:00.000-07:00

I am soooo excited about our upcoming family photo shoot later this month. We haven't done one (other than some hospital photos---which yes were great...but come on, I just gave birth so I wasn't exactly loving how I looked in them. Anyway, the last time we really did anything like this was way back when we were engaged...(that's a long long time ago). Well, my dearest and bestest friend in the entire world, Rachel is so talented and creative in so many areas (visit the link to see the amazing stuff she can do) and just has such a way with capturing my family on camera. She has been so great in getting us to pick a day and just do it already. So...in preparation for this big photo shoot we met at the park with the kids just to mess around with camera and get ideas on what we want to do. THEY ALL TURNED OUT AMAZING! I had to just select a few to share with you. I wanted to share them all...but it was just impossible. Here they are (by the way...this was not a planned deal so their clothes are not exactly what I envisioned...but they still look adorable).

The first one is so precious.

This one of Finny is so stinking true to his personality. A smiley ham (like his mama)

And look at this adorable innocent face??? I could just kiss him to pieces.

Static...so funny.

When Rachel took this photo...Charlotte said, "I'm sad!" Such a drama queen.

My little sweetheart.

And another classic Griffin face.

I can't wait for our family shoot in a few weeks. I can't wait to get some shots of the entire family. Stay tuned! I hope we have happy participants, good weather, and great photos.

So Griffin is 7 months ...

2011-02-24T08:48:00.000-08:00

And I officially did what I swore I never would...treat him like a second child on this blog. Poor little guy has not had nearly as many entries for his life as Charlotte did. I hope he will understand that I really tried but IT IS SO HARD to find the time. I think if he were a girl he'd be mad when he gets older but maybe because he's a boy he won't be as upset about it.

I do have an up to date baby book for him so that's good...so little Finny pie.. you turned 7 months yesterday and you weigh 18 pounds and are 28 inches long (well...you were at your 6 month appointment.)

You are an absolute JOY! You are the happiest baby I've ever known. I love you to pieces and love love giving you kisses and snuggles. As you become more wiggly my heart breaks cause our cuddling moments are fading fast. No matter how big you get...I will always kiss those chubby cheeks.

I love you!

First game night of the year!

2011-01-23T11:34:00.000-08:00

My last post was about opening our home to friends and family and just enjoying the time with loved ones. That is one resolution I can handle this year! Although there were many things that went wrong last night...babies were sick, friends cancelled at the last minute due to illness (boo), car broke down, and so forth...the night was so much fun!

We had dinner, talked, laughed and played games!!! So much fun! I'm sorry I didn't take pictures but with all the unplanned surprises---it just wasn't priority.

All in all...great night!!!

GREAT IDEA...stollen from a friend

2011-01-13T22:13:00.001-08:00

A fellow blogger and friend has this great tradition that she does with her family and I'm totally stealing it!

Every new year...they take all the photo Christmas Cards they get and select one family to pray over for a week. What a terrific way to enjoy the cards all year round! This year, they decided to take it one step further and select one family a month (at random) to invite over for dinner and dessert. WHAT A FANTASTIC IDEA! I love love love to have people over --so this is a social bug's dream! Since the hubby's schedule is limited and January is half over (Is that craziness or what???---it's already half over!). I will begin this tradition in February. I also already have some friends coming over the following weekend, who sent me a Christmas card, so techincally we are starting in January.

Those friends/family who do not live in the area will not be left out. They will get a special something in the mail.

Thank you, Michelle, for a wonderful idea. This excites me beyond belief!

Oh just for the record...I can't promise fancy stuff to eat...but it really isn't about the food anyway...now is it? Crock pot here we come!

Sweet Charlotte or Miss Attitude--which is it today?

2011-01-10T08:30:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year friends!
I hope your 2011 is off to a good start. The Isai's enjoyed a busy but wonderful Christmas and New Year and now we are excited to face the new year and all it's surprises along the way.

My blog title today shares a little of what I endure DAILY with my daughter. Yes, I love her, yes...she cracks me up all the time...but let me create a picture of what last night was like and then what this morning was like.

Last night...
Charlotte: "Mommy, I love you. I hold you (meaning...please hold me)." Then we snuggled and giggled practically all night. When it was time for bed--she cried a little--but didn't really put up a fight.

This morning...
Mommy: "Good Morning, honey."
Charlotte: "Good Morning, mommy!"
Mommy: "Time to get up!"
Charlotte: "Mama! Relax!"
Mommy: (Head about to burst, steam coming out of my ears!)-"Charlotte, do not speak that way to me. You need to be respectful!"

The rest is a blur expect for it took me too too long to get her and Griffin ready because of all the resistance going on. Oh that girl. I could understand the attitude if I woke her up before she was ready, but trust me...she was the one that woke me up---so if anyone should be giving attitude. It's ME!

Why can't all morning be like the other day, when I opened her blinds and as she was squinting she says, "Mommy...it's soooo blight. I need my sunglasses!"

Christmas Lights!!!!

2010-12-20T08:42:00.001-08:00

The family enjoyed taking a walk through a neighborhood in Chino to enjoy the lights. Apparently, this neighborhood is usually completely lit up but this year, some homes were for sale and forclosed so there were some gaps in the dazzling array of lights. It also was Dec 6th so maybe they weren't all quite done decorating. Either way--we had a wonderful time---until the meltdowns of course! :)

Funny Videos

2010-12-17T11:46:00.000-08:00

My little Finny is such a giggly boy!

This absolutely cracks me up!!! And you'll hear it, too!

Random pctures and updates

2010-12-17T11:11:00.000-08:00

I already apologized about not being on top of my blog anymore. Sorry...it's just the way it goes. But I figured it was time to at least update some pictures of the kiddos and to give a few updates.

1. Griffin is officially a thumb sucker! (KILL ME NOW!!!) I have tried everything to stop this but now that he sleeps through the night (OH YEAH) I really have no control over it. He just uses it to fall asleep and then it comes out---but I really didn't want a thumb sucker. I'd take a pacifier ANY day over the thumb---but oh well. Don't tell my mom...she'd have a fit!

2. I already mentioned that he sleeps through the night. He goes down around 9:30pm and doesn't get up till about 6 or so. Woo hoo! Getting him on cereal has really helped that! At his 4 month appt he was just shy of 17 pounds and 27 inches long. He's sooooo stinking cute!

3. Charlotte is still in diapers. It's worth mentioning but I think we are getting closer. She obsesssed with flushing toilets and seeing her poop. That's close, right?

4. Raresh is still a hard working hubby that is making this stay at home business AWESOME! I love you so much for that honey!!!

5. I'm getting better at the stay at home life. I have a cleaning schedule I adhere to about 75% of the time and I've been cooking at least 2 times a week. HEY, that's a start!

Also, getting very excited for Christmas! It's so fun when you have kids!

Here are some photos:

Griffin all set for Christmas light looking...

A little Chick-Fil-A visit. Charlotte loves dressed up characters!Cookie decorating with little Dominic.Yes...she is wearing an adorable apron...thank you Auntie Rachel!A trip to Knott's Merry Farm---Little Charlie is not so "merry" Notice all the kids looking at the little crying girl...that's mine!Talking to some studs...Me and my babies on the carousel!

I also have a few videos of Finny...I'll post next.

Thanksgiving Weekend

2010-11-26T20:45:00.000-08:00

WOW...where the heck have I been??? Clearly, I haven't been in the cyber world but sad to report I actually haven't been anywhere! It's nearly impossible for me to do anything fun and last minute right now. Life is busy. BUSY and a little unpredictable with my little 4 month old and my 2 and 1/2 year old. I've had no time or desire to blog. The truth is--I no longer enjoy it as much because I hate sitting in the computer area. It's not warm, inviting, or friendly...it's where all our bills, important stuff, and JUNK mail ends up and it's depressing. It's much more fun to plop down with the laptop in a nice inviting place like the family room. So why don't I plop down more often? Well, it's cause the laptop is usually with the hubby. He's going to school and he uses it for his papers and homework. So every now and then, I snatch it up and get the itch to type away.

Anyway... that's where I have been. Now on to more important things...Thanksgiving.
It was awesome. We hosted my in-law family this year. It was so nice! We had great fellowship, food and a time of reflection over the many blessings of 2010. My kind of Thanksgiving!

I promise to post pictures soon. It's just been crazy. I'm more concerned with snapping the photos than with uploading them. I'm sure I'll tackle that project one day. For now...trust me...it was a wonderful day and we all enjoyed ourselves.

I even got a little Christmas shopping done AND have finally mastered my housework schedule. It's been a week of my new schedule of housework and it's amazing how much better I feel just getting that under control. Wow...just realized that's another thing I can be thankful for!

Well..that's it for now.

Until next month... HA HA

8 year anniversary

2010-10-30T11:19:00.000-07:00

Raresh and I will be celebrating 8 years of marriage on November 2nd! I can't believe it's been 8 years. In 8 years, we've moved 3 times, changed jobs, had 2 beautiful kids and through it all--managed to truly continue to love one another through the good and the bad.

Our church, Kindred Community Church in Anaheim Hills is doing a great series on marriage on Sunday Nights. If you're able to attend, you won't be sorry. In this day and age marriage is viewed as something that is temporary. We see that everywhere we look. People get together and decide to get married and then when the going get tough the tough get going. It's really sad. We work harder at our work relationships and friendships than we do at our own marriages. My favorite word picture that our pastor shared last week was that we need to think of our marriage as a house with all the doors and windows bolted and chained shut. That way if a fire breaks out the couple would put every effort into putting out the fire together rather than running out of the house and letting it burn to the ground. That's a really powerful way of thinking of marriage.

Well...since Raresh works on our actual anniversary--we decided to celebrate a few days early and go out to dinner at The Mission Inn. It was sooooo beautiful. We ate at the main restaurant in their beautiful courtyard! Oh my goodness---it was like a little piece of heaven. The food was AMAZING, the atmosphere beautiful and the company was absolutely the best part of the evening. We had so much fun enjoying our meal without the kids. We actually got to taste our meal. How nice that was. The conversation was so great, too. I even surprised him by bringing all of his letters and cards that he has written to me over the years. We only read the cards and we were ENJOYING it immensely. It's funny how your thoughts change from when you're 18 years old. HYSTERICAL! But also so sweet.

Anyway---I can go on and on...but for now I'll just say that every day with Raresh Isai is a gift and every time another year flies by I get more and more excited that we made it another year and that he still rocks my world.

I love you Raresh!

My sweet Griffin is 3 months

2010-10-22T23:38:00.000-07:00

I can't believe little Griffin is already 3 months. It's more like big Griffin. He's a healthy happy boy that's about 15 pounds already. I also can't believe my blog entries are so few and far inbetween. I'm soooo busy with stuff and well...truth be told, now that I'm not sitting in front of a computer all day---the blogging isn't as easy to do.

HOWEVER--I needed to make sure I added a special little post for Griffin

In these past three months I have experienced so much joy being with my babies. Last time I had a three month old, I had just started back at work and was so depressed. This time, I'm home. Home where I belong. It's hard. It's really HARD. I want it all. I want to be at home and be the ones to raise my babies, but I miss my freedom, my friends at work, and let's be honest...the paycheck. But even though, this period is a major adjustment and it's not always candy and roses, I know it's what is best for my family and what God wants for us. It's so funny but there seems to be so much more pressure and responsibility to raise up a man. Is that weird? Don't get me wrong, I definitely want to raise up a wonderful woman/wife/mother for the Lord, but it's different when you are raising up a "leader" and "provider".

So my sweet little boy---I want to thank you---for being one amazing little kid. You are so good. You give the best little smiles and coos and only cry when something is really ailing you. You are an absolute joy and blessing in our lives and I'm honored and thrilled to be called your mommy. I love you Griffin John! I continue to pray that you will grow up to be a man of God who will serve Him with your entire heart, mind, and soul and who will be a wonderful husband to a lucky gal. I know it sounds silly but I seriously sit here and picture you all grown up. I know you will be one amazing adult. I just know it! (And since mother knows best...don't you dare make me look stupid! Got it...good.)

I love you!

Love,

Mommy

I'm having one of those days

2010-10-04T10:31:00.000-07:00

I don't want to get into it...
But it's not a good day. And it's not even my kids that are causing this mood---although their crankiness is not helping. But today it's about me and how I'm feeling and today I'm not feeling well. It's nothing serious but it's enough to make me feel out of sorts. There is nothing like having to work when you are suffering. I have a new appreciation for people who are in constant suffering. My heart goes out to you more than I can say.

The only thing that brings me comfort is the verse--- Matthew 11:28 "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." I'm tired, uncomfortable, and I just need rest---so thank you Lord for your never ending promise that only you can give me the rest and healing I so need.

I already feel better---just by thinking of His promises! Hope the rest of you out in the blogosphere are having a good day.

Griffin's Dedication

2010-09-29T09:15:00.001-07:00

This past weekend, we dedicated our precious son to the Lord. What an amazing gift the Lord has given our family--2 beautiful, happy, healthy kids. Although, I am extremely grateful and thankful for these gifts, I know that these children are really only on loan to me. They ultimately belong to the Lord and my husband and my desire is that we raise these kids in wisdom for HIM. I pray the Lord will give me wisdom and strength to raise my children so that they love the Lord with all their heart, soul and mind and that one day they will accept Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior and begin a relationship with Him that will last their entire lives.

They dedication was beautiful and the time we spent with the entire family was so nice. I have many more pictures that family members took so I will have to post others later, but for now...here are two.

Is this what's in store for me??

2010-09-24T17:36:00.000-07:00

Praise God... I got to go to MOPS today and after it was over I went to pick up Charlotte from the kids program and this is what our conversation went like:

Mommy: Did you have fun today?
Charlotte: Yes Mommy.
Mommy: Who did you play with?
Charlotte: Boys.

Wow...just like that I was silenced and for any of you that know me...that is hard to do.

My little 2 year old...already breaking hearts.

Yes...it's been a while

2010-09-23T09:10:00.000-07:00

Hi guys! I know...it's been too long and I should have my priorities straight...but alas...my blog suffers.

Life is still busy...still crazy...but I love it!

The latest thing going on is that both my kiddos are sick and the timing is as always IMPECCABLE!!! Tomorrow is the first day of MOPS (moms of preschoolers) group and Sunday is our little Griffin's dedication and both the kids are sick!!! I'm so annoyed.

Also the hubby is officially back at work and that has kinda turned us upside down. Not because I can't do it on my own, but because he works nights...so that means he sleeps during the day and we need to try and keep quiet! Do you know how impossible that is? He uses earplugs and stuff but still---that means...no cleaning until he's up and doing everything and anything possible to get the kids out of the house for a few hours.

Anyway...so that's my sob story. And what helps a sob story turn into a bright story...some pictures of my sweet babies.

Enjoy---

All dressed up for church and brushing our teeth of course!

Her messy look.

Mr. Griffin---so sweet! And my two little dumplings...wow...no doubt their related!

Experiencing fatigue...in Fatigues!

2010-08-26T17:01:00.001-07:00

Last Saturday we celebrated our good friend turning 5 years old! The little soldier requested a military party! His mother and my dear friend Suzy...threw one heck of a bash. Here are the troops from Camp Isai...reporting for duty. Charlotte was wearing not 1 but 2 caps...her little one was under the red one she is wearing in the picture. Griffin is sporting a little camo vest that my hubby made for him. Complete with a patch and his last name! It was a wonderful outing for our clan. Urrah baby!

Happy Birthday little man! Only 2 more years until you can have chewing gum!!! ha ha ha

Griffin is a little over 2 weeks old.

2010-08-09T11:00:00.000-07:00

So our little guy turned 2 weeks old on Friday. I can't believe it's only been 2 weeks. I feel like he's always been around. A couple quick updates about our little guy. He's doing great! He eats like a champ. There is no doubt that this kid is getting enough food. The constant poopy diapers say it all! I know this sounds crazy...but praise God for poopy diapers. It's such a relief to know your child is eating. He also is a very good sleeper. He wakes up about 2 to 3 times a night but then falls right back asleep---so it's not too bad.

As for how the Isai's are handling 2 kids. Pretty good, I guess. I just can't quite seem to get into the groove of a routine that includes, children, housework, errands etc.--I guess that's expected for now. It's only been 2 weeks--but hopefully by the end of August, I'll get into some type of routine.

Charlotte is still doing well with her little brother. When he cries she runs over to him and touches his tummy and says 1 of 4 things..."Don't cry broder", "It's okay", "You hungry?" or "Tickle tickle". It's super cute to see the two of them together. I'm proud of my little girl. She's adjusted very well to her little buddy.

Griffin's first bath

2010-08-03T10:01:00.000-07:00

Wow...what a difference from Charlotte's first bath. SHE HATED IT!!! Cried and pooped in the tub.

Griffin loved it. He squirmed a little but did excellent. I guess the nick name Fin will be appropriate because all that was missing was gills and a fin and we have ourselves a little fishy.

Brotherly and Sisterly love

2010-07-30T08:59:00.000-07:00

It's been a week and our little family is doing very well. We had one really bad night for Griffin. Non-stop screaming for 3 hours! It was so bad, he lost his little voice. Talk about my heart breaking. But, good news is---a major change in my diet and it seems to be doing the trick. Don't ask what I'm eating cause it's pretty depressing---BUT worth the sacrifice to have a happy and healthy baby.

Charlotte and Griffin are so cute together. Of course, she's not always in the best of moods, but it has nothing to do with his arrival. It's just the typical testing any 2 year old would give you.

Charlotte and Griffin (3 days old)

Charlotte and Griffin (5 days old)

I'll check in soon.

What's in a name?

2010-07-27T10:17:00.001-07:00

I wish I could say that I chose the name Charlotte and Griffin for these amazing reasons but the truth is...I just loved the way they sounded and the fact that they are great kid names but even better adult names. I mean, really when you think of it...we're adults a lot longer than we are kids, so it's important for me to know my kids will be able to grow into their names.

I wanted to share something about what the name Griffin represents. I wikipedia'd it.

As many of you might know...a griffin is a mythical animal---the head and wings of an eagle and the body of a lion.
This is what wikipedia says about it:
"The griffin, griffon, or gryphon (Latin: gryphus) is a legendary creature with the body of a lion and the head and wings of an eagle. As the lion was traditionally considered the king of the beasts and the eagle was the king of the birds, the griffin was thought to be an especially powerful and majestic creature. Griffins are normally known for guarding treasure and well valued priceless possession."

I love this...LOVE IT! How awesome to be able to tell my son, honey....your name symbolizes strength and a responsibility to guard and protect treasures and priceless possessions. He'll probably be confused and ask what treasure I'm referring to---and then I'll be able to share the treasures I'm talking about...
The treasure of family, love, friendship, salvation, service, and the church.

I'm happy with his name and with what I know it will symbolize for our family.

Love you baby Griffin.

Today I turned 30

2010-07-26T12:46:00.000-07:00

Yep...I turned 30 today and received the best present ever! A new son 3 days ago.

I want to make sure I document the labor experience the way I did for Charlotte. Basically, my water broke at home around 3:15am--we called my friend Colleen to come over until my best friend Rachel could arrive to take care of Charlotte until my parents could come the next day at 12ish. (Yeah...it took 3 different people to care for Charlotte...--that's the beauty of living about an hour away from family).

We got to Kaiser Lakeview in about 20 minutes only to find that I was only dilated at 2cm and my contractions were so all over the place that once again I had to get on Potosin to get things going. This time however, I got the Epidural shortly after the Potosin was given numbing me beyond belief. I relaxed, watched COPS while labor got harder--well at least that's what the monitors were saying. I felt nothing. NOTHING. About 8 hours later...the nurse came in telling me I'm at an 8---and will be at a 10 very soon and will need to be ready to push. About 1/2 hour later...the delivery crew came in to tell me it's time. The male midwife told me he would like me to push laying on my side...with my leg up...(okay buddy...whatever you say)---3 very effortless pushes later..bam...my son was plopped on my chest. Then the crying began. I was sooo emotional right away. Not like with Charlotte--where I was in total shock until the next day.

A few things I want to make sure I document:
1. My anesthesiologist was half drunk...I'm sure. He was trying so hard to get my mind off of the pain of getting the epidural (which for the record, didn't hurt at all last time) this time it was bad...which also leads me to think---he was not quite all there. BUT I'm thankful for him and for his lovely drug---which made baby number 2's arrival---smooth sailing.
2. I had an adorable little Indian nurse Mini. I loved her and her accent. She told me I was sooo nice and that she loved taking care of me. How cute is that?
3. My male midwife, was awesome and after he delivered Griffin so quickly he said and I quote, "Are you ready to deliver the ugly twin"---meaning the placenta! Raresh was busting up while I think I threw up a little. I actually wanted to see the placenta this time around. Let me just say...once in my lifetime is more than enough!
4. After the birth...a little Asian nurse took over and asked if I could try to stand to go to the restroom--I was a little doubtful that I could stand right away but I tried...and bam...fell straight to the ground, and of course the little Asian had no business trying to pick me up. I'm glad Raresh was there to save me.
5. I got to facebook, watch Cops, and play Words with Friends through my entire labor. I love AMERICA!

Well...folks...that's my labor in nutshell and that's the way I will always remember turning the big 3-0!!!

Griffin John Isai has arrived...safe and sound

2010-07-26T12:37:00.000-07:00

Hello friends...

My sweet baby boy...Griffin John has arrived.

on July 23rd 2010

at 4:25pm

7 pounds 15 ounces

20.5 inches

Absolutely perfect in every way.

There are no words to express my gratitude to the Lord for his constant care and provision regarding my son's arrival and regarding my entire family.

Thank you Lord for your goodness!

Still no baby boy...

2010-07-22T19:28:00.000-07:00

Well...for those not calling me...texting me...or stalking my facebook...
I wanted to let you know that Baby Ace is not here yet. Although, it's a little frustrating---since all I heard was that if your first was early your second will probably early, too--it's been nice to be home with Raresh and Charlotte for a whole week. We've run errands together, went out to breakfast, took a little trip to the beach, enjoyed the pool, went for walks and took Charlotte to the park. It's not such a bad week when I think of it in this way.

Still...I can't say that it's been totally easy just waiting around for him. I'm extremely uncomfortable, LARGE, and just getting a little irritable.

So...for now...no baby. The only thing that brings me comfort is knowing...THERE IS NO WAY HE CAN BE IN ME FOREVER...right?

Until the next time, I'd appreciate your prayers for the timing of everything and for a speedy and healthy delivery and baby boy.

Last Day of Work...

2010-07-15T10:19:00.000-07:00

Believe it or not...my first reaction is not YAHOO!!! It is so bittersweet. I'm so excited to be home with my family awaiting our little baby boy---I'm so excited to see him and hold him and kiss him and do all the things I've been dying to do---but I'm also really gonna miss my co-workers. I am so blessed to have such a great group of people that I work with. It's hard to imagine that Linda Games Isai...will not be at work on Monday bright and early ready to catch up on the weekend fun in everyone's lives.

But...the time has come...I'm ready for this next chapter in life.

Lord...thanks for a wonderful life, a wonderful job, and a wonderful new adventure that can begin at any moment!!!

Stay tuned!!!

Just checking in...

2010-07-13T09:58:00.000-07:00

I had a Dr. appt yesterday that basically told me that I'm not having this little guy today or tomorrow...but maybe this weekend.

So we shall wait and see.

Charlotte was a week early---if baby Ace is a week early that will make his due date this weekend. So...anyone interested in making some guesses?

Can't wait to see you little man! We love you!

4th of July Weekend

2010-07-07T07:41:00.000-07:00

I know I've mentioned that since May---my weekends have been JAM packed with festivities. We had birthday parties, holidays, weddings, showers, etc etc. The 4th of July was the last weekend I expected to really have anything planned, but since I felt like I had been on the go non-stop for 2 months, Raresh and I decided that for this 4th of July we wouldn't plan anything. We wouldn't do any BBQ's--we would just stay in, enjoy our home and play it by ear.

Well--fortunately the fact that we refused to make plans worked in our favor because his old roommate from England was in La Jolla this past weekend with his family and was hoping that we can meet up with them at Seaworld. At first, I was a little worried about committing to the trip because I'm 3 weeks away from my due date, we'd be going to San Diego, I'd be walking all day, and I'm stinking TIRED---but then I really thought about it and Raresh hasn't seen his friend in 10 years. They have never met each other's families and how often would this opportunity be presented to us. So--I decided I would go and do the best I can.

The weekend craziness started Friday, when we went up to March Air Force Base to get my military ID. Wow, it only took 8 years to get a spouse dependent card AND I'm so thrilled I look like a pumpkin in the photo! Grrrrrr Anyway, we had to get my ID because Seaworld would be free if we both had active military ID cards. So, needless to say---pumpkin or not...we were going to get those cards no matter what! Since we were in the neighborhood of the March Airfield Museum and my daughter is obsessed with planes and helicopters---we had to stop and see it. LOTS of walking and very hot! But all in all--it was nice.

On Saturday, we headed out to Seaworld bright and early and met up Raresh's friends. We had a great time and I even lasted until 4pm before I looked at Raresh and gave him the--my feet are going to explode look. I will say this. I'm glad we got in for free becuase Seaworld is no place for a 2 year old. The only thing to really do there is see shows and aquariums, right? Well, she doesn't really have the patience to sit and wait for a show to begin and then even really enjoy it. We saw the Shamu show---what a jip. The trainers don't even get in the water with them anymore. I guess a Killer Whale attack will change up the routine. Seaworld, does have a kid play area that was PACKED!---so we avoided that area. I wasn't in the mood to lose my kid.

On Sunday, our great country's birthday, we were all dressed and ready to go to church when Charlotte got sick. I was volunteering in the nursery that morning, but we never made it. We spent the whole day inside trying to get better. By 7pm, I was itching to see some fireworks, so we went to the local park in our area and celebrated the 4th with 8000 of our closest friends. 2 bummers about the evening, 1. we had to walk like 3 miles to get to and from our car and 2. our seats for the show were awesome except the car alarms kept going off because of the fireworks. I've never wanted to bust car windows as badly as I did that moment.

Finally, Monday came around and we were able to see Raresh's friends one more time before they headed back home. They came over for lunch and we just hung out. They have 3 kiddos, 8 year old Ethan who loves Legos, 4 year old Erin who whispers everything, and 20 month old Benji---who doesn't sit still for a minute! Boys are so much harder!!!! Yes, a mini panic attack occurred.

The Isai's and the Terman's

So that pretty much sums it up...for a weekend of no plans it sure turned out to be pretty busy.

BUSY WEEKEND!!!!

2010-06-30T08:02:00.000-07:00

We had a very busy weekend. Raresh's brother Radu got married this past weekend to Jennifer. It was a beautiful day and a great wedding. Here are a few shots.

Our little flower girl...The lovely bride and her daddy.Here she is in action.

Landon and Charlotte.

Uncle Radu with his little niece.On Sunday, we had the whole family over for some pool fun and BBQ. Here is Charlotte with Kayla and Ally.Then on Monday, we took Charlotte to the Santa Ana zoo. After the zoo, some pool fun.

Father's Day...BUST!

2010-06-21T09:53:00.000-07:00

Well...Raresh's father's day pretty much came and went without the big celebrations I had hoped. I wasn't planning anything major but I definitely didn't plan on being sick as a dog all weekend. I wanted to get up early and make him a special breakfast and celebrate what a terrific daddy he is and well...instead, he got up early and made me breakfast and basically took care of Charlotte until he had to go to work later that night. We missed church, we didn't have any special food, it was just a blah weekend. BUT the beauty of my hubby is that he is was content to be at home with us. He isn't a man that expects much or gets easily disappointed. So although, I was sad for the lack of celebrating him---he was okay.

So, I decided that once I feel better and hopefully that will be before our baby gets here---I will find a nice way to celebrate his committment to our family.

Thank you Lord, for a great hubby who is perfectly content even when things don't go as planned and who shows me and Charlotte so much love.

Nothing major..just checking in.

2010-06-16T12:27:00.000-07:00

I don't really have anything to say today or anything new to report other than I'm extremely excited at the thought of getting time off when the baby is born. I know the real work begins then...but in a different way. I won't have to deal with the drive or even getting up and getting ready to be at work by 7am. I'll be up way before that but I'll be in my jammies and the best part is I get to have all this time at home with my entire family. Raresh is taking 1 month off. When I was on maternity leave with Charlotte, Raresh took about 3 months off with me. I look back on those months and remember only the good things. Seriously. Of course, I remember being tired and nervous and second guessing decisions but I also remember taking walks with my family, having breakfast, lunch, and dinner together, enjoying the pool, visiting family members in the middle of the week---stuff like that. It was wonderful. THE BEST TIME IN MY LIFE SO FAR! So naturally, since that's all I have to compare it to, I'm really looking forward to that again. I realize it's going to be a little tricky with a newborn and a toddler, but I'm okay with that. Change is never easy but it's going to be okay.

The verse that I'm clinging to right now is this:
Philippians 4:6-7
"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace which transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus."

How can I worry about all this change when the Lord is so good in reminding me that He is there and I need to present my requests before him. I've mentioned this before many times, but it's worth mentioning again---I have always been provided for and I know I have no reason to doubt God's care and goodness now.

Thank you Lord for giving me the confidence in this new chapter of life and for always being present in my day.

Baby Ace's shower

2010-06-04T07:26:00.001-07:00

This post is a little old but---it's still important to note.

On May 15th my sisters and Rachel threw me an adorable shower for our little man. The theme was Owls and Outdoors. Ace's nursery theme is called Tree Tops and it basically has owls, foxes, squirrels---a really cute outdoorsy look. In fact, the main colors are brown, tan, and green---I see Ace being able to use his dad's military memorabilia for decorations in his room as he gets older. It's going to be so cute to have Raresh pass on those things to him.

Anyway--the shower.--It was beautiful. It was exactly what I wanted. Here are a few photos from the day to give you an idea on how it went.

Fun gifts!!! Thank you everyone!Yummy cupcakes made by my sister-in-law, Maria. Coconut and Cranberry flavors...YUMMY!!!Before any of you say it...let me...

Nice hooter, Linda! I'm too funny! These were the fans Rachel made to help cool off the guests on the nice warm day.There are no words to express how grateful I am to the Lord for giving me another blessing to carry for 9 months. I know I complain and want it over all the time---but the truth is, it's an amazing gift that I can have children and I don't want to diminish how thankful and estatic I am about baby Ace.

Also, to my family and friends who always give me an endless amount of love and support--You truly make me so happy. If I'm pleasant to be around---it's because you guys make life pleasant!!

Love you all!

Baby Ace, I can't wait for you to officially join the family and meet all the wonderful people in Mommy, Daddy, and Charlotte's life!

Memorial Day weekend and some major firsts!!!

2010-06-02T08:24:00.000-07:00

Well---it's official, My sweet little baby is no longer a baby. This past weekend marks the first time Charlotte slept in her new big girl room. She did EXCELLENT!

Let me go back. First off, as you all know our little guy will be here in 8 weeks...possibly 7 possibly 9...but either way...we're in single digit weeks now and that is MAJOR. So everyone is giving me advice on transitioning from one child to two. Some advice is very good and very well received and other advice just turns into horror stories which I really don't need to hear about right at this very second, but anyway.

Most people suggested that I move Charlotte into a big girl bed before her brother arrives so that the only major change for her is the baby. So little by little since the beginning of the year, we've been tackling issues that needed to be tackled regarding change for Charlotte so that when brother arrives, the only thing left to adjust to is that now there is another little kid around that mommy and daddy get to love and take care of, too.

First change was getting rid of Charlotte's passy--which happened last year around Thanksgiving. It was not as big a struggle as I thought---but still...glad that's over.

Next up was--when she turned 2, about a month ago---I was determined to get rid of her bottle. I know that most doctors say it has to be gone by 2 years anyway. Well, I figured it won't be too bad since she drinks everything else out of a sippy cup (juice, water etc). The only thing she wanted her bottle for was milk. She would have a full bottle of milk 3-4 times a day. In fact, she loved milk so much that it became her main source of food. So when we took away the bottle on Mother's Day--that pretty much ended her love of milk. But on the bright side my picky eater is eating better. She doesn't have those 4 bottles of milk to fill her little tummy so now...it's all about the food. Still a challenge cause all she wants is otterpops and ice cream---but it's getting better. I've given up the stress of the no milk business and just pray she's getting all she needs from other foods.

The final goal was to move Charlotte in her new room and her new big twin bed. Her old room will remain the nursery and she moved in the spare room. Raresh and I worked really hard to keep the room a secret and make it special for her. Raresh even painted the ceiling with glow in the dark paint and made a beautiful night sky for her. In fact, not only did he randomly put dots on a ceiling BUT the area directly over Charlotte's bed is a replica of the night sky on the night she was born. (How do I know this??? and How did he do this??)--well...the Macgyver that he is, found a website that you can coordinate your exact lattitude and longitude and find the day and year and Viola!!!---they show you what the sky looked like that night including the size of the moon, the visible constellations...etc. So Raresh got a projector, and projected that picture on to the ceiling and got to work. It's absolutely AMAZING. He even put secret little messages in the ceiling for her (a heart and her initials)---so so cute! So, finally the night came and we took her in her room.

Unfortunately you can't see the stars when the lights go out, but it is so cute to hear her reaction. Oh and Luna---means moon and steawa means star.

So, it's been about 4 days and we're still in the bed. Woo hoo! Praise God for another smooth transition.

Next up...potty training! I think I'll wait until she adjusts to brother before I tackle that!

Blogger in absentia

2010-05-27T08:17:00.000-07:00

Geez Louise---it's been a very very long time since I've blogged. I've been a tad busy and distracted to say the least. A lot is going on in the world of Isai's and it's not all about the new baby coming.

So here is a quick overview of what life has been like.

Not only am I 60 days from D-day---but it also happens to be 60 days from my 30th birthday which I have decided I will celebrate MAJORLY next year. There is no way I want to ring in my 30th year as a big preggo or as a sleepless new mother of 2.--Anyway---other stuff that's new:

My brother-in-law is getting married in 30 days. It's of course a very busy and exciting time for the Isai's--Charlotte will be the flower girl--so obviously I'm super excited to see my little pumpkin take on that role (I'm such a performer!) Hmmm...let's see...what else...

My dad's birthday is this weekend, I have 2 baby showers the following 2 weekends, then we have family coming in for the wedding, then we have the wedding, then we have 4th of July...and then BAM I'm a mother of two. I'm hyperventilating just thinking of it.

I have so much to get done. I swore that whatever I did for Charlotte I would do for baby Ace. (No that's not his name---just a nickname) So that means, his room needs to be ready before he arrives, not because he'll need it right away or he'll know that I didn't have it ready, but because I promised I would not give him second rate treatment. It's my issue. So let me have it. I also have been working on his baby book just as I did with Charlotte. The one thing that has truly suffered is the blog and really--that's not the worst thing in the world. I will have to come up with a new name and look for our blog--its' only fair that I change it to reflect both of my blessings.

So what else...Oh yeah I got to go to Glen Ivy on Monday for the whole day with 3 dear friends. It was my mother's day present and it was so amazing to just sit and chat and not worry about anything except having fun and relaxing.

And now it's time for some random shots--

Daddy and Charlotte in our neighbor's pool.Charlotte and Addisen giving each other a big hug on Charlotte's 2nd birthday.A sweet shot of my sweetie's face.And Charlotte on her new set of wheels.

Well, that's it...for now...

Happy 2nd birthday my sweet Charlotte!!!

2010-04-28T08:03:00.001-07:00

2 years ago around 8am...I had been a mother for about 6.5 hours. I don't remember exactly what I was doing right at 8am but I do know I was beaming with joy and excitement at the fact that I finally got to hold you in my arms. I remember Raresh and I would just look at you and at each other and smile. 2 years today---life is better than I expected. You are just the most amazing little girl. You're funny, smart, talented and so friendly. I couldn't have asked for a better package!

So Lord...I will never ever be able to express enough thanks and gratitude for this precious gift!

Charlotte Jane---Mommy and Daddy love you so much! Get ready for a terrific second year! The best present is yet to come. A playmate for life will be arriving in about 3 months.

Happy Birthday!

I love you!

The weekend before you turned 2.

2010-04-26T07:39:00.000-07:00

This past weekend, 4 days before Charlotte bug turns the big 2--we went to celebrate her buddy, Sandrine's birthday. It was a beautiful day for a party and we had a great time.

Raresh also managed to take a little trip to Bass Pro Shop with his little girl and when I got home...this was how I found her. Head to toe in Mossy Oak pattern. Who's ready for a huntin' trip??? Charlotte is!Then Daddy got very silly and I had to take his picture...I was laughing so hard.Next Charlotte wanted to try. Too bad the picture is blurry.
It was a good weekend. Just 2 more days until Charlotte turns 2. WOW---where did the time go?

Some updates on our little Charlotte

2010-04-09T08:22:00.000-07:00

So...it's been a while since I've just jotted down some funny things Charlotte is doing these days. She's about 3 weeks away from her 2nd birthday and these are the stats...

She weighs 25lbs.
She's a very picky eater.
Her favorite hairdo is her little pig tails. She's not much into the bows so the little pig tails are about the only thing she doesn't pull out.
She still puts everything in her mouth.
She has a weird fascination with baby wipes. We always have to give her one to play with while we change her.
She is close to potty training...but not quite there yet (I think I'm the one holding her back--just cause I'm too tired to really deal with it right now).
She loves the swings.
She can say the entire alphabet and identify the letters. In fact, anywhere we go she yells out letters she sees.
She knows all her colors (even pink, brown, and gray).
She can count to 10 in English and Romanian. We count going up and down the stairs every day.
She loves planes, helicopters, the moon...basically anything in the sky.
She loves animals.
She loves the I'm a Barbie Girl song by Aqua (my fault entirely)--she asks for it all the time.
She loves that horrible Yo Gabba Gabba...especially the "Hold Still" song.
We are currently working on our shapes.
She points to tummies and says, "bruh-der"---not quite sure she gets that only mommy has a brother in there!
Some of the adorable and hysterical things she says are:
Strawbaby---for strawberry
Bikeysal-for bicycle
Cowck--for Quack
Ohjeej-for Orange

That's about it. Baby brother is doing fine. I'm 25 weeks along and getting very excited to meet him. We have a name picked out...but it shall remain a secret. If by some strange change I've slipped and said it...ignore it and don't repeat it! I really want my loved ones to be surprised.

Easter Eggstravaganza

2010-03-22T08:38:00.000-07:00

This weekend was jam packed with all kinds of things.

On Friday, I had a doctor's appointment. While I was inside, Daddy and Charlotte were killing time in the waiting room. I get this text from Raresh.

"Our little bookworm"

Saturday, we spent the morning at Auntie Rachel's house and then off to celebrate a 75th birthday with Charlotte's surrogate Grandpa--Gochi. I was too busy to take photos of the kids. They were all there and it was chaos. Charlotte played with her cousins, ran from the dog, ran after chickens, jumped on the trampoline, swung on the swings and missed her nap. I got a total of 2 pictures of her.

One with Tiki--

The other one I got of her on the car ride home. We were not even on the road for 5 minutes...Sunday, we went to church and after church we had the Annual Egg-stravaganza Egg hunt and picnic. Here are a few shots of Charlotte in her adorable sailor outfit that my in-laws bought her. She had such a fun time. I did have one moment of panic when I watched the boys interact--boys were literally running into each other and knocking each other down and then they would just pop right back up and move on. Oh how tired I feel all of a sudden thinking of boys. My world is sooooo gonna change! My Sunday concluded with a nice nap (we all took a nap), a trip to the hair salon--not liking the do---but I'll survive. It's cute---BUT WAY too short and it will be so much more work than what I want right now. Stupid young hip stylist...when I say...I need a low maintenance cut---that means...give me a hairdo I can pull back in a ponytail---not what I got. I can't upload the darn photo...so just trust me okay!

Then we stopped at the park and my sweet hubby set up a faux spa for me. I did my own toes and fingers but he hooked me up with all my supplies and then cleaned up afterward. After my pampering, we curled up and watched 2 movies complete with snacks. It was a perfect ending to a perfect weekend.

Life is good... very very good!

For Charlotte...

2010-03-11T08:25:00.000-08:00

I'm a little tired of the "it's mine business" and the stubborn streak I see in you. The last 2 weeks you have been very adamant about saying "it's mine!", "No!", and you don't like to say I'm sorry for any of your actions.

This is a reminder for me that we all have sin in our heart and so I pray for wisdom on how to make you aware of the sin of disobedience. I still love you---and I always will---But seriously---I'm over it.

You still crack me up though...

I love you...my little stinker!

For my son...

2010-03-11T08:20:00.000-08:00

Mommy is plugging along. She's doing okay---BUT oh how I wish I had daddy home more evenings to help. I'm so tired. I'm out by 8pm EVERY night. Isn't second trimester when you start to get your energy back? Oh boy...I'm in some serious trouble. I also feel a little guilty at my lack of enthusiasm about this pregnancy. I'm sorry little guy--it has nothing to do with you. I'm thrilled to have a son. I'm thrilled to think of how absolutely adorable you will be--but I'm just drained. So sweet little boy, forgive mommy. I promise when you arrive, you'll have all the attention and excitement you deserve.

I love you.

ABC's and 123's

2010-03-08T08:47:00.001-08:00

I just can't believe how much a kid learns at this age. Charlotte is very interested in books, repeating things, watching things and you can just see her mind working over time to capture all there is to learn. I love it. Raresh and I are so amazed at her ability to retain information. Here is our little pumpkin at 22 months.

Here are some videos:

When I think of how she'll be so helpful with her little brother--it brings joy to my heart. I pray the Lord gives me the strength and wisdom to teach my children in the ways they should go. I want their active minds and hearts to know the most important thing...JESUS. If I get that right...I'll know I've fulfilled my duty for Christ. Oh...such work...such responsibility....but oh so worth it.

Mommy and baby brother --19 weeks

2010-03-04T14:38:00.001-08:00

Hi little baby boy---Sorry we don't have your name picked out yet.

Here is what mommy looks like at 19 weeks. I really feel your sweet little flutters now. It's crazy to think I'm almost at the halfway mark. I'm feeling pretty good. No more sicky poo feelings lately---BUT STILL SOOOOO TIRED! My bed time is literally 8pm. But all in all...I'm good and so excited to finally hold you. I really wish your daddy would be home more but he's very busy with work and school. He's such a hard worker. Here is a picture of me and your big sister. She's not in the mood to take many photos these days but I tried.

Your daddy is... simply put...AWESOME!

2010-03-01T08:49:00.001-08:00

My mother-in-law bought Charlotte a little gray fleece vest from Old Navy back when she was about 9 months old. Let me take a moment and paint a picture for you all---

Vests are a big deal to most Romanian grandparents and this is why...

A child can easily wear it over his or her clothes and this will ensure that the child won't feel a draft on their lower back. You think I'm kidding???I am not. My mom wears one often and she loves when I sport my adorable and trendy vest. When I drop off my little sweet pea in the morning, the first thing my mom and my mother-in-law do is put on her vest. This vest is a staple in her baby bag. I never leave home without it (per the grandmothers requests) As I mentioned before, she's had this little puppy for months and is still able to wear it because it's a size 18 months.

Well tragedy struck 2 weeks ago when the precious little gray fleece vest got a busted zipper. Charlotte doesn't mind appeasing the grandma's and wearing her little vest ---but like any kid she won't keep it on if it isn't zipped and since the zipper was broken the vest wasn't worn as it was in it's hay day.

So this weekend...I went to my sweet little nephew's second birthday party with Charlie bug and daddy stayed home resting before he had to leave for work. When I arrived home after the party (Raresh was long gone) I noticed her little gray fleece vest on the table complete with brand spanking new SNAPS attached in the place of where the zipper was.

I literally laughed out loud at the amazing, talented, creative hubby that I have. We can add this little number to the many many things he's created for me. (The nursing bra---a CLASSIC, the shawl, the remote holder on my eliptical machine, adding many many tags to Charlotte's favorite blankie and now the little gray vest).

That vest will forever be treasured and never given away. Oh Charlotte...the things your daddy does for you and me to show us how much he loves us. And to my precious little boy...I just can't wait until you meet your dad. He's going to teach you so many wonderful things and he'll be such a perfect example for you in the hubby and daddy department.

How can I not want more kids with this man?

Baby Brother on the way...

2010-02-09T13:38:00.000-08:00

The Isai's are elated to report that Zainy 2.0 is a boy! We seriously could not believe it when we heard. The last couple of weeks I've been feeling like this little baby is a boy but until you hear those words, "You're having a boy!" You just can't imagine anything other than what you already have. Raresh was thinking we're having a girl.

So there we were at the sonogram school. The school was recommended by my doctor for the impatient people like me. My actual appointment to find out the sex of the baby is still not set up and most likely won't be for another month. So at 16 weeks we decided to try out the school. The students need the practice, it's free, and it was close.

When we walked in the room, I told the 2 girls in there that unless they are pretty sure of what they see---not to say anything. Shortly after they began, they found what they needed and decided to keep checking before anything was officially said.

After they told us, I asked if they were sure enough for me to tell my family and they said, "We are both sure, but we'll call our teacher in to get her opinion." She barely set one foot in the room and said..."Looks like you're having a boy!"

It was awesome! We are still in shock but soooooo happy at the newest little addition. Welcome to the family my sweet little guy. See you in July!

Some photos:

Here is his cute little face (creepy looking but to me...perfect!)Here he is just laying around.---Love love love this shot!And apparently---this one tells me he's a boy! See the little arrow pointing???

Well...I guess she's an animal lover...

2010-02-01T14:35:00.000-08:00

This past weeked the Isai family had an animal filled time of adventure. Friday night we went to dinner at some friend's house. They have a dog named, Ava. We really can't tell who was more excited...Ava or Charlotte.

On Saturday, we took a little trip to visit my in-laws. They have a cat named Peetzy which Charlotte loves. As we were all visiting...I noticed Charlotte was gone. We found her in Aunt Mia's room laying on her tummy looking at Peetzy and saying, "meow" before giving her a big kiss. You'll need to shut the music off at the bottom and turn up the volume to hear her soft voice.

Finally, after our trip with Grandma and Grandpa we went over to see my sister and her famly. She has a dog and some chickens. Charlotte kept yelling, "Doggy, Doggy" and saying, "Duckie Duckie". After we corrected her, she began yelling "Chicken".

It's so sweet to see her excitement.

Excitement or not...I'm still not getting a pet. Mmmmkay?

In one hour....

2010-01-19T07:38:00.000-08:00

I must have peed 7 times. I'm not kidding. It was around the 5th bathroom visit (Raresh had to pause 24 yet again) that I said, "Honey...you are carrying the next baby!" Then after he laughed, I said..."Don't even mention the word 3rd baby until I'm at least 35."

So sweet Zainy 2.0--I'm sorry...but really...7 times in one hour????

Oh and I know some of you think I'm crazy...or even imaging it..but at 13 weeks, I have felt my sweet little baby kick. It was not gas. IT'S WAS AN ACTUAL KICK!

Soooo exciting!

Here is our little Zainy 2.0

2010-01-14T08:18:00.000-08:00

How cute are you???

Charlotte's web is growing bigger!

2010-01-14T07:44:00.000-08:00

I'm sure many of you know that we are expecting our second child. It's such an exciting time for our family. I am almost 13 weeks. We found out on 11/13 that we would be having another addition to our family. The due date for this little bundle of joy is my 30th birthday--July 26th.---Just an FYI--Please...don't anyone plan to throw me a huge surprise party unless you want the biggest surprise of your life...my water breaking...or me not showing up. ha ha---There will be plenty of celebrating when the time comes.

It's been too long since I've blogged and this is why.
I'M TIRED!!!! I'm experiencing the normal 1st trimester fatigue PLUS the tiredness of having a very active toddler. But it's definitely time for me to start addressing how I'm feeling, what I'm craving, and what the family's reactions were. After all---baby number 2 is not going to get the short end of the stick and not have the same excitement that Charlotte had...NO WAY!

So little bundle of joy (which we call--Zainy 2.0)--
Mommy did not throw up yet...(bless your sweet little heart)---but I was feeling nauseated the first trimester.
Mommy is tired.
Mommy has to pee---ALL THE TIME. I don't remember this being the case so soon last time. Not really liking that part.
Mommy feels a lot smaller than she did with big sister---however, that might be false, but hey...it's a good feeling to have.
Mommy is not really having a gut feeling of what you are---the way I did with big sister--so that makes me think...Boy.
Mommy hasn't been craving much---however cheese quesadillas and chicken salad sandwiches always sound good.
Mommy and Daddy are beaming with joy and sooooo excited to welcome you into our little family. The Lord has blessed us beyond words.
Charlotte is already kissing my tummy and saying Baby--I can't wait to see the two of you together.

One final detail about our news. We told our parents on Thanksgiving and we decided to have Charlotte wear a big sister shirt and see who notices. Needless to say...my in-laws missed the message entirely and decided her shirt was too thick and hot...so they changed her within 10 minutes of being there. We all had a laugh when they realized what we were trying to do. The only one that got it was soon to be Aunt Jennifer.

My side of the family got it right away...well at least my sisters did. Slowly but surely the news trickled through the house.

So Zainy 2.0---thank you for being such a good baby so far. And Lord--THANK YOU---for giving me everything my heart desired and more. How oh how...will I ever have the right words to show you enough thanks!

Charlotte...you're life is gonna change---but for the better.

Sweet hubby of mine---You are truly my favorite husband! :) I know you get that little joke of ours and I know that says it all.

Until next time..

Cute video

2009-11-19T13:59:00.002-08:00

For my non Facebook friends....I know you haven't seen this.
Here is one of my favorite videos.

2009-11-04T08:23:00.000-08:00

On Halloween day, the Isai clan got together for breakfast at Storytime Cafe in the Grand Californian Hotel at Downtown Disney. We were all there to celebrate Ruxandra's new job! Congrats Auntie Rux. I'm not a big Halloween person at all...but since I did have a ladybug costume from her first birthday, I figured she can be a cute little bug again for breakfast at Disney.
Here are the Isai's waiting in the lobby for our party to arrive. Sorry, Charlie...but this one is more about me and daddy. Our first Disney character coming to visit our table. First off, I feel bad at not even knowing who this character was. I know it's not Baloo from Jungle Book---so who are you? Big Brown Bear is what they tell me he's called---(yeah I could have guessed that myself!) I guess it's time to start brushing up on my Disney films. Now here's a squirrel I recognize. Dale...yes, I'm sure it's Dale cause he has the red nose and the gap in his teeth. Charlotte had a love hate relationship with him...she seems a tad frightened here.Oh but wait...now she's reaching out to him.Okay no...he's too close to her now!Okay...he can pat my head. Now I will hold your hand.Afterward, Landon and Luke played outside with her.

Oh look it's a lady bug and LandigiSuch a sweet little girl...always making time to stop and smell the flowers!

Ditch day at the beach...

2009-10-21T08:30:00.000-07:00

So the other day, I was just about to get up and get ready for work and my sweet, amazing and wonderful husband says, "Do you really have to go to work today? I really want to take my 2 favorite girls somewhere fun today." That's all I needed to hear to make a call in and say, "I'm taking a day off." That entire weekend I was away at a women's retreat and I didn't get a chance to spend any family time with Raresh and Charlotte so it was a perfect idea. We decided to go to the beach and have a picnic. Before we left I decided to put Charlotte on her brand new potty to see if she would go. AND SHE DID!!! On Monday, October 19th by sweet baby went pee on the potty. Talk about a perfect day to play hookie and go celebrate. She hasn't peed in it since...but hey...it's a start.

We packed a picnic and drove down to Crystal Cove Park in Laguna and spent a wonderful day together. Great idea honey. Any time you want me to stay home...JUST SAY THE WORD!!!

Camping at Canyon Lake, Az.

2009-09-30T07:58:00.000-07:00

This past weekend the Isai's headed to Arizona to camp with some of Raresh's buddies from the base. It was a blast. It was actually way to short. I can't believe I was ready for more---considering the bathrooms were outhouses and the showers were miles away. But the 3 days and 2 nights we were there was loads of fun.

Here are a few pictures.

Our home away from home. (Master bedroom and nursery)

Feeding the ducks with my precious baby.

New day...new outfit.

Oooo how fun...I get to ride in the boat!Playing in the tent.All packed up and ready to leave. Stopped at a cute little ghost town. The Isai's

On our way home...dirty...tired...and still smiling.
Now for some random memories about Charlotte.

Whenever she sees Auntie Rachel she starts doing Patty Cake. This is something Auntie Rachel does with her quite often and now...Charlotte immediately starts clapping her hands when she sees Rachel.

She also calls Rachel Bubbles...because she always blows bubbles with her gum. We really think, Charlotte thinks that's Rachel's name.

She learned out to "blow it up" this past weekend. Basically...when someone gives her high five she does it. Now..when you show her a fist...she makes a fist and hits your fist. I'll get a video soon.

She randomly yells..."Coo Coo"

She loves to get people to chase her.

Oh my little pumpkin...she's so much fun!

First Haircut

2009-09-21T08:05:00.000-07:00

So little Charlie needed her bands cut. Here is a quick video of Auntie Jo trimming her bangs.

The best part of the video is the fact that my nephew Ryan---just loves cameras and was dying to perform. So after Joanne tells him no, he still manages to find a way to say what he needs to say.

Funny.

Here she is admiring her new "look"

Labor Day weekend fun

2009-09-08T08:40:00.000-07:00

I had 4 days off for Labor Day. It was soooo nice. Friday was the only day that Raresh had off---so we packed up the kiddo and went to Temecula. It was a very short trip but it was just what I needed. A nice drive with my favorite husband and daughter!

Later that night I met the gals for BUNCO (New Orleans style) and I won 35 bucks for most games won! Woo hoo!

The rest of the weekend Raresh had to work...so as always...I stayed busy. On Saturday, we went to my mom's house for some family time. We had some cousins visiting from Canada. I got a few shots of Charlie with Spencer and Amanda. By the time the other kids arrived...I was over picture taking!

Sunday, after a wonderful morning at church. I went to the Alberico's house warming party. They have a beautiful home and we felt so welcomed there! It was also fun meeting up with the original "mother hens" Gina and Lori...and watching our kids play together...in the ice bucket mostly...

Charlie and Emma

Charlie, Emma, and Dominic at the ice buckets...Diaper babies...they were filthy after playing in the ice buckets.Then lastly...on Monday, we headed over to Andrei and Ligi's for BBQ, pool, and my favorite BOARD GAMES. Once the board games began...the pictures stopped...so this is my only photo of Charlie, Addisen, and Spencer.

Taco Taco...the music video

2009-09-02T07:14:00.000-07:00

Okay so this little kid of mine is such a character. She's got the Vlad performance gene in her for sure---but guess who's a little camera shy?? It drives me bonkers. The minute I hit record---silence from my little entertainer!

So with some coaxing and prompting...I got a little of the Taco Taco I mentioned the other day.

Oh and pardon all the movement going on. She doesn't sit still anymore.

Taco Taco

2009-09-01T07:43:00.000-07:00

I have no pictures to post---just something I want to capture in writing. Charlie has been saying taco for about 2 weeks. Since she's never had a taco---we knew she was trying to say something else. We listened carefully to how she used the word and we deduced that she's saying. "Thank you" It was so cute because you'd give her something and she'd say, "Taco". Well, the other day I was singing Twinkle Twinkle little star to distract her while I was changing her... and she looks back and me and starts singing..."taco taco and then the jibberish begins" So today marks the first day that my daugther picked her favorite song. Twinkle Twinkle little star...or should I say "Taco Taco al alas taddal amaad"

Then I realized Twinkle and Thank you...do sound somewhat similar so she probably was saying Thank you. Perhaps she was saying, Taco for singing taco taco alsdfalsdf (jibberish begins)

She's funny.

Time for the park & a visit with family

2009-08-31T08:30:00.001-07:00

It's been a long time since I've posted anything new. It's so tough to keep up with the blog now a days. We have so many ways of sharing pictures (i.e Facebook)...that my poor Charlotte's web gets neglected. But here are a few shots from our trip to the new park by our home.

Riding in style with Daddy.

We also spent some time with Buna Susy, Ezra, and Addisen. It is so fun to play with Ezra. He's such a smart kiddo. We played the hot and cold game for a good 45 minutes. For those of you who are living in a cave and have never played the hot/cold game---this is how it goes. You take an object (in this case it was a tiny red car) and one of you hides it. The other person has to try and find it by your clues of yelling, "hot or cold". The best part was how creative Ezra got in hiding the car and then of course his clues. "You're boiling...boiling and...You're so frozen!" I loved it. That kept him entertained for a long time---while Charlie and Addie spent time with Grandma.

It's been a while...and guess who's talking

2009-08-04T10:05:00.000-07:00

I know it's been a long time since I've added any photos of Charlotte. Here are a few from our visit at our new and FREE water park 15 minutes a way by foot.

She was a little fearful at first but then she got very brave and I couldn't keep her away from all the cool sprinklers. She loved it.

After the water park fun....Charlie was in a very talkative mood.

Life has been super busy but we've all been enjoying the long summer days and trying to soak up all the free time we have with family time.

The little girl in The Little Gym

2009-07-20T11:31:00.000-07:00

This past weekend Katie and her daughter Kayden, invited Charlotte and I to "best friends week" at Little Gym. It was so cute to see all these little kiddos learning to play together and following the rules of room.

Me and the Katester

The session starts out with getting warmed up in the circle. Walking, running, and jumping.
Katie and Kayden, Charlotte and I.
Big upside-down hug from mommy.Then it's time to play with bouncy balls.Eat your heart out Kobe!She was not happy about putting the balls away.Moving on to the other gym apparatus.The next photos are by far my absolute favorite. The teacher asked Charlotte if she'd like to try to tumble (your basic somersault). I warn you the photos look worse that it actually was. Here she is...all ready to go. She put her cute little feet on the stickers and put your hands on the "x"s and then on the count of 3 the teacher and Raresh rolled her over.

This looks just awful. She looks terrified.

We had a great time. Thanks for including us for best friends week.

Then we enjoyed some fun in the sun. She loves daddy's hat.She grabbed Raresh's hat and put it on. It was so cute!

4th of July 2009

2009-07-07T07:49:00.000-07:00

Wow---I can't believe 4th of July came and went. Time is flying very fast. Anyway, this past weekend we enjoyed time with family and friends doing what we love to do... hang out in the backyard and BBQ.

Friday, we had our good friends Katie and Tim (who are getting married in about 3 weeks) come by. It was so fun seeing them. Raresh and I are looking forward to going to their wedding up in San Luis Obispo area for my birthday weekend. It will be a much needed getaway for the Isai's.

Then on Saturday we hosted a pool party/BBQ for both of our families and some close friends. It was a great day. We enjoyed the great weather, spend time with one another and were able to see some great fireworks from our grotto. We allowed the kids to climb on top of it and they were just thrilled.

By Sunday, we were pooped.

All in all...great weekend.

My adorable family.I swear...we like to think we're on vacation in our backyard...that's all we can afford. ha haI could just eat them both up. I love my sweet babies.This year...our family has committed to getting as many photos of the kids when we are all together. So here we go again. This time Buna (grandma) is the lucky one.Okay...why does my hair look so bad and my sister's look so great? Oh I know...she was too chicken to jump of the grotto into the pool. Ha ha---not really...she just had good hair that day. If my hair looked good that day---no grotto jumping for me either! hee hee hee

Ezra's birthday party and weekend fun

2009-06-30T07:42:00.001-07:00

This past weekend we celebrated my nephew, Ezra's 5th birthday. WOW--5 years old...seriously?? Well, sweet little guy...have a wonderful 5th year! I pray God will be with you, bless you, and work in your little heart. May you grow up to be a loving and wonderful man of God!

We, of course were all there to celebrate with him.

Cousins Vivy and CharlieBounce house fun...Daddy was working all weekend...so it was just me and my little doll.We also had fun at Katie's bridal shower tea party.The next day...we hung out at the house while daddy worked again. We missed you daddy!

Dad's birthday

2009-06-25T09:39:00.000-07:00

This post is a little late but my dad's birthday was May 30th and so the entire family went over to my parents house for a BBQ. I personally think my parents have a large home. BUT, when you pile in 4 married children (8 adults--10 inclucing my parents) and 7 grandkids...that home becomes extremely small and very fast.

We first started with some photos of the most recent additions to the family. I tried to select which ones to post, but they were all so cute that I just included all of them.

Here is Charlotte, Addisen, and Spencer

Here are a few shots of all the cousins.

Amanda, Spencer, Ryan, Addisen, Ezra, Charlotte, and Kyle

Proud Grandpa (Bunu) and all his kiddos.

Charlotte...very mad that we tried to get a photo without her pacifier.

Happy Birthday Dad! You are a terrific Dad and a very loved Grandpa!

Father's Day Weekend

2009-06-23T07:38:00.000-07:00

First off, A VERY BIG HAPPY FATHER'S DAY to all the wonderful dads out there. Especially to my dad for all the sacrifices he made for his family and for all his love and support. He is one terrific dad--if I do say so myself. I also want to acknowledge my father-in-law, Alex, for raising a wonderful man which I'm privileged to be married to. And last but certainly not least...A big virtual kiss and hug to my baby daddy (ha ha). You are an amazing father and a terrific partner in crime. I love you to pieces sweet hubby.

The weekend was very busy...some quick updates.

MUSTY(moosty- the little mustache Raresh was growing-- is gone ...gone baby gone.) He didn't grow it the entire 30 days and I couldn't be more thrilled. He basically said, "No one wants to continue so we're just shaving them off today." Thank you fellas for coming to your senses. Unfortunately, he didn't even let me get one photo of it. He came down stairs with a Charlie Chaplin/Hitler type thing and then after my initial shock of that-- he shaved the entire thing off. Woo hoo!

Now on to the weekend.

Friday, we went to Bass Pro Shop. It was great to see little Charlie notice all the animals (even though they were dead and stuffed). The rest of the day we chilled at home and went swimming. It was so relaxing.

Saturday, I went to a graduation party and then I met Raresh and Charlotte up at Uncle Nate's birthday. It was nice to hang out and watch Charlotte play with Landon and Luke. You will notice some photos of Charlotte with her "magic leaf"---so cute!

Luke---finally woke up and joined the fun.Priceless face. Absolutely priceless.

Sunday, we went to church and then celebrated Father's day with both sides of the family. It was very hectic but nice. Raresh and I also joined the Gocan's for sushi that night. Ohhhh boy...oh boy...I do love sushi.

Well, that's about it for now.

2 crazies and a copy cat

2009-06-17T07:46:00.000-07:00

I mentioned yesterday that my little kiddo is doing some funny stuff lately and I promised videos. Well, I think the 2 crazies...my mom and I... are way more entertaining than Charlotte's new tricks.

In the first video, we are trying to get her to copy us coughing and then copy us making a weird sound with our finger and our lips. She does both tricks...but I think we went a tad overboard.

In the second video, we're trying to get her to touch her nose when she hears "teet teet". Again, I think she starts fussing because she's annoyed at us. She doesn't quite do this trick but she does a modified version...which we'll accept.

Isai Family Updates

2009-06-16T07:31:00.000-07:00

So... I feel like it's been a while since I've posted anything on the Isai family. Basically, we're all doing okay. My sweet hubby Raresh is growing a mustache, which I've appropriately named Musty (pronounced mooosty). Why is he growing musty you ask??? Because his entire group of co-workers (with the exception of 2 that apparently can't physically grow a mustache) committed to growing a mustache for 30 days. It started May 30th and I have 14 more days of this nonsense. I'm not a huge fan. Raresh promises me that once day 30 hits (June 30th) ...it's off his face and out of the house but somehow...I think he's getting attached. I will, of course, post some pictures. (In fact, you can kinda see it in the pictures I've included of Charlotte below.)

As for Charlie...she's hysterical. She currently has 4 upper teeth, 2 bottom, and 1 bottom molar. She walks all over the place. Literally, she walks around the house all day long. She looks like a little old lady carefully crossing the street. However, the cautious little old lady act is quickly fading as she's quickly gaining speed.

The other fun things she's been doing include, looking up and waving when she hears a plane, or a lawnmower (which she thinks is a plane) or any other loud thing that sounds like a plane. She copies everything you do. The other day I practically choked on my water and started coughing like a mad woman and I hear her coughing wildly. I'll have to get some video up of her doing the silly things.

As for me...working and enjoying the time I have at home with my family. Nothing too exciting to report.

Here are a few photos of Charlotte and some even include Musty.

We're trying to limit her passy time--some days she forgets all about it...other days she needs it. Today was a "need it" day.

Charlie, Daddy and Musty (I noticed when he has the stubble on the rest of the face it doesn't look to bad---it's when he has a clean shaven face that makes me cringe. I love my sweet little hubby but the musty has got to go... (notice...Charlie doesn't like it either!)

I'll try and add a video of Charlotte walking soon.

Little blue dress

2009-06-03T07:27:00.000-07:00

Charlie got a very cute dress from my cousins in Texas when she was born that she just now fits into. I love these gifts that keep giving. I remember opening the present...seeing this dress and thinking "This is so Bohemian! This is so cute!" I couldn't wait for her to be old enough to wear it. Well, that time came and boy did it come quick. Of course, I had to get a picture of her wearing it because I'm sure just as quickly as she grew into it...she'll grow out of it.

Of course, my little Charlie was not in a picture taking mood---but I got a few that are decent.

We need to incude the back view (of course)And...we're done...And seconds later...we're all better. Funny how quickly the water works come on and off. Oh dear, already the drama!

Long Beach Aquarium

2009-06-01T09:02:00.000-07:00

Okay, so Raresh & I decided to take our little animal lover to see some sea animals at the Long Beach Aquarium. Apparently, we picked the busiest day of the year to visit. I think every kid within a 20 mile radius was there. Good grief.

However, we still had a great time. I warn you, there are a lot of photos.

I love this photo of her little head watching the sea lions.Here she is by the puffins.Big Jelly Fish...I love how her finger is up against her cheek as she is observing what the puffins are doing.By far...my favorite photos were her by the colorful coral.

We had a wonderful time, seeing God's beautiful creation and seeing our little creation explore all the beautiful things around her. She was very curious about all the things she saw.

Wednesday mornings...

2009-06-01T08:55:00.000-07:00

Every Wednesday morning when I drop off Charlotte at my mother-in-law's house I have this view as I pull out of the driveway and head to work....

Some how...that view, gives me all the strength I need to get through the 9 hour day.

Precious.

Memorial Day Weekend

2009-05-28T07:19:00.000-07:00

This Memorial day we went up to Sacramento and Tracy to visit both sides of the family. The road trip was long and I was a bit worried about how Charlotte would do, but it turned out great. We only had to make 2 stops each way. Here are some photos from the trip.

Charlotte watching birds at the rest area.

The reason for our Sacramento visit was because my cousin had an engagement party/dinner. Here we are before we left. Joanne and I. Kyle, Dad, and RyanMom and C.J.Daddy and baby chasing duckies.After the engagement, we planned to head for Tracy the next day to see Raresh's cousin and his family. It was in Tracy that Charlotte really started walking a lot. For weeks now she's been taking 2-3 steps and then crawling, but while visiting the Neicu family she just took off. It's crazy how one day she's scared to death to take those steps and then the next she's ready to go.

Here is Kayla and Charlotte chatting at the restaurant.This was our sad attempt at getting Ally, Charlotte, and Kayla in at least one decent photo.Finally, all the girlies...Ally, Me, Charlotte, Kristen, and Kayla.We had a wonderful time seeing all our family and celebrating a day for all our Military Heros. Thank you for sacrificing so many things so that my family and I can feel safe and enjoy so many freedoms. God bless you all.

Kayden's 2nd Birthday

2009-05-18T07:28:00.001-07:00

Saturday, we celebrated Kayden's 2nd birthday. It was oodles of fun. She wore an adorable t-shirt with a sparking 2 on the front and perhaps the cutest too-too ever. Here are a few photos of the day.
Here is Charlotte and the birthday girl---Checking out each other's outfits.Little Arianna arrived, too!It was a fun weekend. Happy 2nd Birthday little Kayden. We love you!

It's official...smaller things are just cuter!

2009-05-18T07:19:00.000-07:00

If there is one thing that I'm sure the entire world were to agree on it's this...hospital gowns are atrocious. They are extremely unflattering, the open in the back for crying out loud, and they just make one feel ever so frumpy. I think it's safe to bet that hospital gowns are one if not the ugliest clothing item out there, right?

Well, maybe you'll change your mind when you see this one...

Sooooo cute, huh? Charlotte had her first year check up and Dr.'s appt. They said to strip her down to a diaper but it was freezing in that room, so when they offered this little number, we just couldn't refuse. Glad to report that our little sweet pea is progressing very well. She's in the 75% for height, 50% for weight, and her head is full of brains! (she literally said that.) She was a total trooper during the shots. I'm glad to report this is the first time I didn't cry. Mommy's growing up!

Blog entry overload

2009-05-14T08:44:00.001-07:00

I finally had a chance to update some photos and so we have 4 posts today. Enjoy...

And just to get the ball rolling. I've included 1 photo and 1 video.

The photo is of Charlotte's new tooth. Remember, how I mentioned she got 1 bottom tooth just in time for her first birthday? Well, now we have 2 bottoms and 2 1/2 tops. The picture below shows the first she gotThe best part is...the first top tooth to come in was not the traditional one. Take a look...

Isn't that crazy?

The video is one of her laughing. My mom made me promise I wouldn't get her in the shot because she was doing some pretty silly stuff to get her to laugh. So because I love and honor my mother, I agreed. You can, however, hear her---that is funny in and of itself. Enjoy.

I'm glad the animals don't know...

2009-05-14T08:33:00.001-07:00

That I am NOT an animal person.

Look what we found on the side of our house in an old planter?

3 very cute little kittens that will sadly---one day...grow up into CATS. Sorry cat lovers.

As if that wasn't enough...look what we found again this year in our grotto? A bird's nest complete with birds and bird poop. (For those that ever wondered?--Fake owls don't do squat!)

Guess who is the only person who's happy about this?

For all the PETA fanatics out there...rest assured, your precious animals are safe. We aren't touching any of them. We aren't feeding them. And we certainly aren't keeping them. I'm hoping that when the cats are big enough to leave, they will. Cats leave if you don't feed them, right?

Maybe I'll send a campus wide email asking if anyone wants to provide a home for these little things?---(yeah right...like that would ever happen!)

Swim day

2009-05-14T08:22:00.001-07:00

I am so thrilled that summer is quickly approaching. I love summer. For a number of reasons:

1. We get to use the pool.

2. More BBQs

3. My birthday

4. Cerritos College has 4 day work weeks. EVERY FRIDAY OFF for 10 weeks!

To sorta celebrate the fact that the weather is getting warmer--we took Charlie out in the pool.

A Day at the Beach

2009-05-14T08:12:00.001-07:00

About 2 weeks ago the Isai's decided to take a little trip down to Huntington Beach. It was a very spontaneous decision but it turned out great. The Starke family came along and we even all piled in one car for the occasion. Can you say road trip??

Here are some photos:

Charlotte's very first birthday

2009-05-04T07:13:00.000-07:00

Last weekend on April 25th we celebrated my little love bug's 1st birthday. It was such a wonderful day. She took a very long nap right before everyone arrived which made her a very happy and social guest of honor. The theme I selected was lady bugs. Here are some pictures of the day. I warn you...there are quite a few.

The birthday girl... The decorations...simple and sweet.Mommy and Charlotte...Daddy and Charlotte...Getting ready for a little snack...Ready to take flight...Bunu and Buna Vlad...Daddy and a very unhappy Charlotte in the bounce house...

The cake and other sweet goodies...The smash cake...What she did with it...Yum Yum...all done...Showing off her second outfit...
There you have it...just a smidgen of the day. My thoughts on motherhood are simple. Motherhood is the most amazing gift the Lord ever gave me. It's been a blessing and an honor to serve God in this way. To my sweet little love bug---you've made my first year as a mommy a wonderful one. God Bless you!

I love you!

--Mommy

A great weekend filled with some major milestones!

2009-04-21T07:35:00.000-07:00

We had a very very busy weekend.

On Friday, we celebrated my friend Jayme's birthday at Matsu Restaurant in Huntington Beach. The sushi was very yummy and we had a great time. Because Jayme hates photos...I'll only include 2 of her on the blog. (one is a group shot...so it doesn't count!) Happy Birthday Jayme! Here's to many many more birthdays!

I just love this man so much.Rachel and I realized we didn't take a photo at the restaurant...so we thought...hey, better late than never. Here she is sitting in Charlotte's humongo car seat...(ha ha)

Saturday, we went to Chris and Stephanie's wedding. What a beautiful wedding that was. We all had a wonderful time celebrating their commitment to one another. God Bless you guys! Unfortunately, I did not get many photos of them. I think I was just so excited to spend time alone with Raresh that the happy couple...kinda slipped my mind. Oh well...

Sunday, we went to Temecula to visit some friends. It was such a nice day for a drive and then a great day to BBQ. Charlotte was not with us on Friday night or at the wedding so it was so great to take her along to Temecula. We missed our little pumpkin.

Boy oh boy did she love playing in that fountain.In this picture you can see, she's totally over the crawling on her knees stage. That didn't last long at all. She now does this weird let me walk on my hands and feet thing.I'm glad she was with us that day cause while in Temecula she got---HER FIRST TOOTH!!! Bottom left. I know...some of you parents out there are thinking...she's going to be 1 in a week and she just got her first tooth?---Yes it is true...her first tooth. It's actually quite fitting...1 tooth for her 1st birthday! Awwwww. I'll try to get a picture of her tooth up on the blog as soon as possible. She's not quite interested in letting me get a good look at it so it's been very difficult to get a photo of it. We've been dealing with on and off teething issues for months so it's so nice to finally see that little pearly white peeking through.

The other major milestone happened yesterday April, 20th. She took her first steps!!! This little girl is now officially on the move! She's of course very stumbly and all over the place but she's getting the hang of it and very quickly! I'll post a video of that soon.

Overall, we had a great weekend.

Charlotte's first Easter

2009-04-13T06:48:00.000-07:00

It was a wonderful weekend. We celebrated the resurrection of our Lord and Savior with family and friends. It was a very busy weekend filled with all sorts of things.

Friday, Raresh, Charlotte, and I went to Good Friday Service at our church and then enjoyed a quiet afternoon together. That evening we had dinner with the Calderons and enjoyed a much needed soak in the jacuzzi. We all needed it! It was so cold and windy outside the grotto/cave thingie and so warm and relaxing inside. Perfect evening!

Saturday, was a day filled with errand running and money spending. I got a dress and shoes for Chris and Stephanie's wedding coming up next week. I also picked up a few very necessary things like the amazing EZclip/comb you see on TV. It's awesome ladies---I would definitely invest in one. Raresh got a bike and I got brand spanking new inline skates (they aren't called rollerblades by the way---that's a brand--just a little trivia for you---just like pocket utility knives are not called Swiss army knives either---okay I digress)

Sunday we went to our church service at 8:30am and then to the grandparents church at 11:00am. It was wonderful to sit in the congregation, sing those amazing hymns about Jesus's sacrifice on the cross and his glorius resurrection. After both services we went to the Isai house first for some lunch and then the Aunties put together the 3rd annual Isai Easter Egg Hunt in the grandparents backyard. Here are some photos from the fun afternoon.

Landon and CharlotteLuke and CharlotteCharlotte, Landon and LukeHere's the hill---wait till you see the photo of grandma down below...high high hillCan you imagine finding an egg in this garden?? It was quite a chore. (Luke lost in the jungle)Charlotte and daddy having a great time.ooo goodie--Charlotte found an egg!and another...There's grandma---watching...I told you it was high!Easter 2009- Family shot!I'll post the pictures from the Vlad side later. I don't have those yet! A good time had by all!

Arianna's Birthday

2009-04-06T07:36:00.000-07:00

This weekend was my sweet little neighbor, Arianna's 1st birthday. The party was a huge success. She had lots and lots of visitors and the decorations and goodies were just amazing. Her mommy did a great job! She also set the standard pretty high---but guess what?...I'm not threatened by anyone's standards...Charlotte's first b-day will be perfect because it's hers! Anyway, I forgot my camera, so I didn't get any photos..but my other neighbor Katie did---Here are a few...

The birthday girl and her daddy. She really loves that cake!

Charlotte and Kayden playing in a little house. They are such good little buddies. Arianna was too busy to join them this time. She was the guest of honor!--We understand.
Mommy and Charlotte in the bouncer. That didn't last long. Some how I can just tell, my kid won't be a thrill seeker. She hates being thrown in the air, loud noises, jumping, swings...any of that stuff is just not her thing...instant terror and tears. It's cool...she'll grow into it.

Spring is in the air

2009-03-30T10:06:00.000-07:00

This weekend we enjoyed 2 things:

1. visiting with friends

2. and the wonderful weather.

There were tons of pictures but I tried to pick and choose the best ones...

Friday night began with dinner at the Koontz home. Christine and John have 3 adorable kids named Nathaniel (4), Simon (2) and then baby Josie (8 months). I think I have the ages right. The boys were asleep almost the entire time. I guess when you're that age and you've been running all day---you sometimes need to crash around 6pm. I didn't get too many photos of them but I did get some cute ones of the girls.

Saturday, was a pretty light day. I met some friends for coffee in the morning and then in the afternoon I enjoyed the lovely outdoors with Charlotte.

Then we stopped by to see Arianna and Anthony. Cute matching hats!

And here is Charlotte's first interaction with a dog of that size! Whoa baby! Look at her face. That's my girl...

And now...we see, she's really a pet person. Too bad---mommy doesn't do pets. We'll just come and visit Max when you feel the need to pet a doggy.

Getting ready for her first birthday

2009-03-25T08:28:00.000-07:00

Well, it's been decided. Her first birthday will be lady bug theme. Here she is in her little outfit, getting ready to celebrate her very big day.

And we're done...

My little big girl

2009-03-16T08:33:00.001-07:00

I can't believe Charlotte is almost a year old.

This weekend we had lots going on and now it feels even more busy cause she gets around and fast. My goodness! Oh and I've never had to keep my floors so clean. She finds EVERYTHING and straight in the mouth it goes! Grrrrrr

Here she is...standing (with support of course)---my next goal is to get a video of her in the process of standing up. It's sooo cute.

While I was away...

2009-03-09T13:49:00.000-07:00

I mentioned that I was away on a conference Wed-Fri of last week. Well, I returned and all was just peachy while I was away. Raresh told me that Charlotte was a teriffic sleeper--both nights I was away she slept from 5pm-7am. That's what happens when you don't take a nap during the day. On Saturday morning, Raresh and I both witnessed our little pumpkin crawling. She's been doing the army crawl for months and now she finally got the hang of the traditional crawling. It's so cute. The very next day on Sunday, she was pulling her self up on everything. Last night, when I tried to put her to sleep, she got up and cried until I went back in there to lay her down. Apparently, she knows how to get up but not how to get down. Silly kid. I just can't believe how quickly she went from crawling to standing---okay one day!

Here's a video...

Anyway, I had a wonderful time while I was away but there was nothing as good as coming home to my sweet loving family.

There really is no place like home.

Mr. Mom

2009-03-04T07:37:00.000-08:00

So today at 12:00pm I'm going away to Arrowhead for 3 days and 2 nights with work. It's a Leadership and Teambuilding conference/retreat with about 40 other college employees. This will be the first time I'm leaving Charlotte over night. Daddy will be taking charge for the next 3 days. I know Raresh can handle it. He's so hands on and very helpful with Charlotte but I can't help but be a little bummed. She's so little and she's so much fun right now. A 10 month old doesn't forget her mother after 3 days does she? Raresh reassured me it's all going to be okay and that she won't forget me. I asked that he show her pictures of me while I'm gone and he laughed. I'm grateful that he knows her routine. He's not going to have too many surprises because of it.

The only reason I'm looking forward to this trip is because my dearest friend in the entire world Rachel, who also happens to work at Cerritos College, is also going ---and get this...she's my roommate. How fun will that be?---You can bet there will be stories galore, lots of Scrabble matches, and endless laughter. She's the perfect person to go with---because she won't let me get too home sick. Mija--get ready for some serious memory making!

Still---I already miss my little love bug. Charlotte, mommy loves you very much and I'm sure you'll have a wonderful time with your daddy. Honey--you are so amazing. Thank you for making me feel so comfortable about going. You seriously get the hubby of the year award---AGAIN!

I'll report how things went when I get back, Friday at 4:00pm. Hope we don't get snowed in---cause you can bet that I'll insist they air lift me out!

Charlotte and her buddies

2009-02-23T08:44:00.000-08:00

This weekend Charlotte had 2 quick visits with her 2 best buds on the block--Arianna and Kayden. Here are some photos of the silly gals.

Arianna stopped by to see how Charlotte's doing. It's so hard to believe that these little kiddos will be 1 in about 2 months! Where has the time gone?

This one is my favorite...How cute...Charlotte has her hand on her back.

Then we stopped by to see Kayden. Kayden is so sweet and protective of Charlotte. Here she is watching her as she scoots by.

This one is my favorite from this visit. Look how sweet they both are? Charlotte was busy chewing on a part of Kayden's toy and she layed down next to her to keep her company.

It's so nice to have sweet little buddies that live so close and get along so well.

Today mommy feels better...

2009-02-19T08:19:00.000-08:00

And because of that I thought it was time to post a few photos of you.
Those little smirks she makes crack me up!

And now here is a little video of my sweet baby responding to her name. Don't ask me why I chose the name Bianca---first name that came to mind. Funny.

Rainy days and Mondays always get me down...

2009-02-18T13:32:00.000-08:00

Dearest Charlotte,
Today mommy is sad. It seems like the last couple of days I've heard one sad thing after another. I've heard family and friends go through some really tough things and I don't know what to say. I'm filled with sadness, fear, anxiety and many other emotions. I have no idea how to comfort them. I can't think of anything to say that will really mean anything or even bring them comfort. It is an awful feeling. When I have days like this I immediately think of you and of how one day you'll grow up and you'll experience trouble, problems, and anxiety. There will be things you experience that I won't even know about. Things you'll keep from me because you don't know how to tell me, or how I'll react. The truth is...I shudder to think that you won't be able to share with me and that you'll go through things without my help. You need to know that you can tell me anything and I'll love you and I'll do everything in my power to help but in case you choose not to include me---there is one thing you need to know today---when I'm pretty certain you're not going through anything major---other than the pain and annoyance of teething.
Here it is...
I won't have all the answers. I may not know what to say to you or to my friends and family that are going through things that I would never want to experience---but I know someone who can help. Someone who has all the answers (even though they may not always be revealed) and that is our precious Father in heaven. He's the only one who can bring you comfort and He's the only one that will never fail you. Remember this verse, honey---remember this when you're all alone and when you're sad, scared, or anxious.

Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified. Do not be discouraged for the Lord, your God, will be with you wherever you go. (Joshua 1:9)

There are not many things I can promise---but I can promise you that!

I love you my angel.

Love,
Mommy

To my friends and family that are experiencing grief and sorrow (you know who you are)---I love you. I'm sorry I can't make it better. I'm sorry that you're going through this painful time but please remember and believe the Lord, your God is with you wherever you go!

Kriss Kross will make ya JUMP JUMP!!

2009-02-02T08:31:00.000-08:00

Charlotte having a grand ole' time in her jumper.

Weekend Update

2009-02-02T08:06:00.000-08:00

Not much occurred this past weekend other than the usual. You know, some errands, chores, church, and some down time with Auntie Rachel (which always includes 3 things---Scrabble, some type of outdoor activitity--this weekend it was bike riding and roller blading, and watching bad reality TV and making fun of it.---DietTribe was the show we chose to rip to shreads---so easy to do.) Since I have no photos of the 3 things we did---here's some of Charlotte instead. Why not?

Rachel got her this little dress.

I think it was Friday night that I was enjoying a fudgsical and Charlotte seemed really interested in it. So I let her take a little taste. I think she likes it...what do you think?

Silly little baby.

If you have 10 minutes to kill...

2009-01-30T07:39:00.000-08:00

Visit the Orange County Zoo in Irvine Park!

You seriously only need 10 minutes. It's that small. Please don't confuse this adorable little zoo with the Santa Ana zoo---this is even smaller than that one!

But it did have some impressive animals.

2 Mountain Lions

2 Bears

1 Eagle

1 Ocelot

1 Bobcat

Goats

Deer

Birds

and that's about it.

The entire park is gorgeous. They have a couple lakes, a train that goes all around th park, horseback riding, a zoo, wonderful trails for walking or biking, paddle boats you can rent, picnic tables and benches and beautiful trees all around. So relaxing and peaceful. I highly recommend a visit to Irvine Park.

Now on to some photos.

I started by taking a few shots of daddy and Charlotte. (How precious)

Then I realized we need a family shot---so I began my favorite ritual of squeezing together and snapping the shot myself. ---I'm normally pretty good at these shots but that day---something was terribly off. Notice in the first few that mommy and daddy look okay but Charlotte is not cooperating---so I insist we keep trying. And this is where the fun begins. Enjoy...

The first one we took actually ended up being the best one---although Charlotte looks weird in it.

The second one is better one of Charlotte (I guess) but now Raresh is not cooperating.

The third one I apparently decided Raresh's eyes and nose aren't even necessary and Charlotte is now very mad that I took that tube she was chewing on out of her mouth.Raresh's reaction to me cutting him out of the previous photo apparently made me laugh---and laugh hard---As you can tell I'm totally cracking up about it...Raresh looks great and Charlotte's looking for her chew toy.Ooops---there I go again...(notice the chew toy is back)By now--we're all done...so this was the last one we attempted. Not the greatest but I'll take it.

Oh are you wondering where the shots of the animals are???---

That wasn't really my priority but just to appease you animal lovers...here you go. Happy now?

Guess who's back??

2009-01-30T07:17:00.000-08:00

A happy baby and a happy mother!

I haven't added any photos of Charlotte lately because as you know---we've had some growing pains these last couple of days. The teething has been a real bear. Since she's now feeling a little better I decided it's time to post some pictures of our happy baby all back to normal. I know all kids go through good times and bad but man ---oh---man--do the bad times feel like they last forever or what?

A few classic shots of her in her second home--aka---"The Carseat"---poor little thing--always on the go.

The other day, Charlotte was in her jumper bouncing away and having a grand ole' time while I was cleaning up. The next thing I know---I hear total silence. I look over at her and she's asleep. So funny! Rachel has been asking if she ever fell asleep in her high chair --well--no, she doesn't miss meals (hmmm--wonder where she gets that from?) but she seems to be okay falling asleep in the middle of some exercise. Yeah---I can see that.

Also, I had Charlotte gut busting over a silly noise I was making so I ran to get the camera and this is the so called "gut busting" she gave me when she saw the red "record" light. Darn it! She just won't perform on cue!---She really is an Isai!

I'm happy to report, the Isai household is getting back to normal. I love it.

Thanks for your kind words and prayers.

Teething = Sleep Deprivation

2009-01-27T09:09:00.000-08:00

It's been too long and all I want to say is---I'm tired. Very very tired and really praying for her little teeth to come already. She's miserable and so are mommy and daddy.

Sleep sleep how you are missed

Screaming alarm will make anyone pissed

It won't last forever. It's a season of life

And I'm sure Raresh misses his nice happy wife.

Just a silly rhyme to express my silly nonsensical time in life. I'm not used to sleepless nights. I miss my darling sleeping baby. And since she's misearble--I haven't had a good opportunity to snap pictures of her.---I promise my next post will have pictures.

She turned 9 months yesterday! Can we say crazy?

A New Year's Challenge...definitely underway

2009-01-08T07:48:00.000-08:00

I wanted to give you all a quick update on how my New Year's challenge is coming along. It's been a few days since I posted and here's how it's going.

1. I memorized the first 2 verses for 2009. The first is John 16:33---"These words I have spoken to you that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world!"
I also learned Ephesians 5: 1-2--- "Therefore be imitators of God as dear children. And walk in love as Christ also has loved us and gave Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifce to God for a sweet smelling aroma." (Just for the record these verses were both typed from memory. Woo hoo!)

2. Being a better wife---well, I haven't packed his lunches this week but I did send him loving and supportive texts and spoke kindly to him.

3. Being a better mommy--I fought through all the tiredness and enjoyed my evenings with Charlotte.

4. Balance--I accepted Raresh's help in cleaning the house which gave me more time to take care of other errands. This past weekend I managed to balance time with family, friends, and I even polished my fingernails. I feel that's pretty good balance for this week.

5. Forgiveness--I didn't beat myself up (too much) for not doing everything I set out to do in this challenge. I know every day is a new beginning.

6. Working less--No change there but I'm still being positive about it and I'm learning to be faithful in prayer and patient in waiting. Key word is learning. I'm having a rough Monday morning.

7. Living each day as if it were my last--I didn't really do anything meaningful as if it were my last day, but I have been more aware of how short life is and I'm trying to make the most of the time I have. Having that awareness and reminding yourself of it, does help prioritize things.

One area I definitely need to work on is doing things that build people up not tear them down. I hope next week I can have better reports on this one.

Well, week one of 2009 turned out pretty good. I'm grateful. Very very grateful.

Happy Anniversary Charlotte's Web!

2009-01-08T07:41:00.000-08:00

Tomorrow, January 9th, marks the 1 year anniversary of my blog. I have to thank Rachel for bringing me into the blogging world. She really encouraged me to do it and I'm so glad I caved and started. Every now and then I go back and read the old posts of how I felt before Charlotte arrived and it brings everything back as if it just happened. I'm so thrilled that I was able to capture so many of my thoughts, fears, and feelings. I also love seeing how much Charlotte has changed. It's unreal!

Well, I really would have loved to post this on the actual anniversary day but I will be very busy tomorrow and know the likelihood of me getting a chance to post is very slim. So Happy Anniversary Charlotte's Web! Here's to many more posts!

A New Year...a new challenge

2009-01-05T07:40:00.000-08:00

This 2009 I am asking for prayer from my dear friends and family. I have a few things on my mind that I want to accomplish and I figure by writing it down, I can reflect on it later and see how I'm doing.

Some goals and plans of action.
1. I want to memorize scripture.
My plan of action: I will learn the weekly bible verses given in our church bulletin.

2. I want to be a better wife.
Plan of action: Pray for Raresh more, support his work and be more understanding of his long hours. Cook more and pack his lunches. Speak kindly to him, submit to him, and tell him what a wonderful provider he is and how every day God gives me with him is a gift words can't measure.

3. Be a better mommy.
Plan of action: Pray for Charlotte's needs now and for her future needs. Stick to the routines I've made for her. Sing to her more. Read to her more. Play with her more. Not allow the long days and tiredness to cause me to miss out on the fun and joy she brings to my life.

4. Balance time with family, friends, work, chores and me time.
Plan of action: Family--The days Raresh doesn't work are family days.
Friends--The days he does work is the time I schedule time with friends.
Work--Wake up and go--and try to find the joy in it.
Chores--Take advantage of Raresh's willingness to help around the house.
Me--Once Charlotte is asleep, pamper myself.

5. Forgiveness
Plan of action: First off, I need to forgive myself for the days I don't complete everything on my list. I need to remember, some days are really hard and I need to stop focusing on what I didn't accomplish but on what I did.

6. I don't want to work full time.
Plan of action: Save! Save! Save! and pray that the Lord would provide a way for me to work less, work from home some of the time, or stop working altogether. Be patient and consistent in prayer about this.

7. and most importantly---I want to live my days as if Jesus is returning today.
Plan of action: Choose my words carefully, love and forgive those that are hard to love and forgive, eliminate the things that don't build me or someone else up. Tell others about Jesus.

I realize these are huge things to accomplish but #5 is going to get me through the days I don't do so well. (How smart of me to include that #5, huh?)

What do you want to do this year?

Christmas 2008

2009-01-02T09:19:00.000-08:00

Hi all---I know I've been MIA again. I had some time off from work and the last thing I wanted to do was get on a computer. So here is a quick recap of Charlotte's first Christmas.

We went to the Vlad's house on Christmas Eve. It's always so crazy when we all get together. 7 very active grandkids will make anyone's head spin--but I wouldn't have it any other way. It's always so fun to spend time with my family.

I really had every intention to get pictures of all the cousins--but I failed. It just got so crazy so fast--so sorry Ezra, Amanda and Spencer I didn't get any with you-but I'm sure someone in the house did. Here are some shots of Addisen & Charlotte.

Next up...Kyle and Ryan wanted some photo time with Charlotte.

By far the best thing Icould have found under the tree...

The next morning...0ur little family opened gifts together (sorry no pictures---but we did film). After that, we went to the Isai family. It was nice being able to celebrate with both sides of the family. Maybe next year the Vlad side can attempt a family photo. Trust me when I say--we've tried but it's nearly impossible. Remember we've got 7 little ones. What drama!

And finally--the three of us took some pictures the Sunday after Christmas at home.

Matchy Matchy

2008-12-22T10:09:00.000-08:00

Yesterday, after visiting the Pop family, we went to the Christmas Concert at the Romanian Church. It was very nice. Charlotte and I matched with our little leopard outfits. Raresh was thrilled I didn't buy him a leopard print tie---cause he knows I would have insisted he wear it. Do they even make leopard print ties? I hope not! Here we are all matchy matchy--

Then we took a picture with my sissy and her son, Spencer.

Afterward we bundled Charlotte up and took a photo of her in her Santa hat (thanks Suzy). Ho ho ho and Merry Christmas everyone.

Elliot David Pop---Welcome to the world!

2008-12-22T10:00:00.001-08:00

My cousin Viorela and her hubby Chris just had another baby. His name is Elliot. He is super cute! His big sister Vivian is so adorable, too. Here we are visiting them.

Viorela says Elliot is a great baby. Although, this photo doesn't show that. I don't think he liked me very much. Poor baby. He was hungry. Can't help you there kiddo!

Here we are: Elliot, me, Viorela and Charlotte.

Little Vivian was sleeping when we came over. She did wake up and I was able to get a photo of her. She's so cute. I can't believe she's a big sister.